I have never felt like our friendship was threatened by someone else.  I have never ever felt like I had to 'win' her friendship.  Or jump through hoops to keep it.  I don't ever feel that just because she doesn't spend more time with me, or call me all the time that I'm 'losing her'.  Nope... I know that when she has time she'll call or we'll get together.  I know that when I call her, she'll return the call when she gets a chance.  There are no 'worries' between us.

I guess this comes up 'now'......yes because she means a lot to me..... but also to show you that even with my female friends all 3 of them.... distance and time have played a part.

Tammatha and I are almost total opposites.  I think I would probably have more 'in common' with her husband than I do her.... but I don't really know David very well, and rarely even see him!  I'm not sure even if he likes me much, cuz I've never really spent much time with him!  We're always in passing.  She's much more high class than I will ever be.  Totally different tastes!!!  She is beautiful ~ was blessed with a thin tall body, loooong legs, and just as much beauty on her insides as on her out. Our views & opinions on most things (except men) are different.  But our tastes in men are different.  Even if I did go out and socialize the way I'd like to, or the way I wish I could, .... the places we'd go together are probably few, we'd have to take turns choosing and compromising for sure, and we'd socialize with different people I'm sure.  We'd probably circulate in different crowds.  I've never been able to just 'hang out' with her really, cuz I've always had some personal hang up or issue to deal with. Mostly a serious inferiority complex.