Rosie, your ideal sexual partner is:

A Type 4 places a particularly strong emphasis on the emotional connection you share during sex. The one-on-one intimacy you create in your sexual moments serves as a bond that gives your Type 4 partner the greatest of pleasure. This is not to say that physical pleasure is unimportant to them. On the contrary, they revel in good feelings, but when you're engaged in sexual activity, they simply might focus on the deepening of your emotional connection more than rushing toward the ultimate physical rush of orgasm.

Your Type 4's libido is strong. However, they rarely feel the need to flaunt this to other people. They prefer to keep it more personal, more between you and them. That's just the way they express themselves.

This person radiates warmth and love. They are affectionate during sex and will rarely shy away from telling you how they feel about you. This is someone you can always rely on to be honest and sincere, since sex is the ultimate expression of their trust in you. << YES

Both physically and emotionally, a Type 4 is a sexual explorer. Orgasm is rarely the driving goal with this person and, because of this, they are likely to be creative and able to take you places you may never have expected. << Yes and no... the result isn't the drive, but the result is necessary!

Statistical studies indicate there are 10 distinct sexual personality types. No one type is any better or any worse than another. The difference between them comes from the unique combination of behaviors, preferences, and attitudes individuals hold about sex. You, too, are one of these types, but this test is designed to show you the specific characteristics of your ideal sexual partner. You are most likely to be compatible with someone who shares your views on these things — but it's actually a bit more complex than that.

As you answered the questions to Emode's Ideal Sexual Partner Test, we analyzed your responses and were able to break down what someone who is sexually compatible with you is like on a number of levels. From there, we paired you with the sexual personality type that best reflected your unique wants and needs.

Now that you have the personality of your ideal sexual partner, you probably want to know how to find them — before you get intimate. To help you understand what you should look for, we've taken a look at how your perfect partner scored on 5 classic sexual personality dimensions: sexual experience, value of emotional connection, seductive behavior, libido, and focus on orgasm.

This is what your ideal partner's sexual personality profile looks like.

Taking a closer look at, and getting to know each of these dimensions, will give you both a clearer picture of who your ideal sexual partner is and how to identify realistic partners before you go too far down the wrong path. Here are descriptions that will help you understand the dimensions in depth.

Emotional Connection

The Emotional Connection dimension sheds light on how much your ideal sex partner cares about the deeper bond between the two of you. It also measures how much you can expect them to show affection towards you. You are looking for a sexual partner who considers the emotional connection to be of high importance in a sexual relationship. << YES

How to spot it when you see it
If you noticed someone hanging out with their friends and saw them put their hand on a friend's shoulder or hug someone goodbye, chances are this person is comfortable expressing affection. >> Also pay special attention to people who remember your name or small details about you that even you don't remember telling them. << YES

These are people who value the connection they've made with you. Anyone who's asking you personal questions — what you do for a living, where you live, where you grew up — and takes the time to really listen to your responses is probably someone comfortable with the more tender and intimate aspects of sex.

A test to determine their level of emotional connection
A good way to test whether someone's level of emotional connection is high or low enough for you is to find out if they like to kiss. There are ways of doing this without actually touching lips. Try dropping a line along the lines of "I will always remember my first kiss because it really set up how special they can feel," or "kissing is one of the best parts about sex." See if they agree, disagree or are indifferent with that. Your ideal sexual partner would likely be in high agreement with this.

Sexual Experience

The Sexual Experience dimension measures how comfortable your ideal sex partner is with trying out new things in bed, and how confident they are with sex in general. The more savvy they are, the more they're willing and eager to experiment. >> You're looking for someone who has a medium rating on this dimension. << I disagree with this one a bit.... ya gotta wanna spice things up as needed or when the urge strikes ya!!

How to spot it when you see it
Your ideal sexual partner tends to be the kind of person who tries to get you to try new things, from the latest restaurant, to taking a course, to attempting to cook Thanksgiving dinner all from scratch. People who are sexually experienced go where their curiosity leads them — and they'd love nothing more than to take you along with them.

You're likely to meet someone sexually experienced at an unusual gathering. Maybe they're the one trying to get everyone to try dinner at the Cambodian restaurant that just opened. When you're at a bar, keep your eyes on the dance floor. It's the sexually experienced person who often gets the dancing started, or who pulls you on to the floor. It's not that they're trying to embarrass you, it's simply that they want you to have as much fun as they are. And with life, as with sex, they're ready to dive in and enjoy.

A test to determine their level of sexual experience
Think up an idea or belief that is considered "out there" by many people. It could be anything from a hot-button political issue to an unusual suggestion for what to do one evening. Bring up the issue to them, and see how they react.

If they show genuine interest in considering this subject from a different point of view, you're off to a good start. This implies that they're fairly receptive to hearing new things and are curious. It also indicates that they will not make you feel ashamed for broaching new subjects with them. The chances are, if the person is open-minded in general, they will also likely be open-minded in the bedroom. And that means they won't be closed off to trying the new and playful things you might like to do.

Libido

Finding someone whose libido — or sex drive — matches your own is incredibly important. Otherwise your timing is all off: they'll be ready to go when you're not and vice versa. Since you're someone who is often in the mood, << PROVIDED the other connection is there you need a partner who's also often in the mood.

How to spot it when you see it
Although someone's sex drive is one of the harder things to figure out until you really know them, there are some clues to look for. People with a high libido tend to live life to the fullest. They love to experience things.

At a museum or concert, this is the person who loses themselves in a painting or song. While out at dinner, the person with a high libido will be the one who not only knows what every item on the menu is and how it's prepared, but can comment on each of the wines as well. They could be the world traveler who will know exactly where you should shop while in Katmandu. They aren't necessarily thrill seekers, they're simply masters of appreciating things. They want more out life's sensual pleasures than others.

What this person dislikes most of all is limits. They find rules restrictive. Relative to other test takers, you want someone who has a moderately high sex drive. So start noticing people who can enjoy life fully — but also know how to call it quits before they go overboard.

A test to determine their level of libido
Try wining and dining your love interest at a nice restaurant. Make sure the place you take them goes the extra mile with nice music and a great atmosphere. You want your date to be excited by the sensuous scene around them but not consumed by it. If they can talk about how lush and amazing everything is — but still stay focused on the two of you or current events or any normal topics of conversation — then chances are you've found a person who's sex drive is on par with yours.

Seductive Behavior

The Seductive Behavior dimension measures how much your ideal sexual partner draws attention to their sexuality. Do they know how to use their charms to attract who the want? According to your results, you are looking for someone who can turn it on when they feel the time is right. << PROVIDED the other connection is there.  If I feel connected, secure, and appreciated and or valued, I morph into a whole new person on this level.  This is one of the first to die for me tho if those elements aren't present.

How to spot it when you see it
In general, a seductive person is comfortable with their sexuality and isn't afraid to show it. However, seductive behavior can come across in hundreds of different ways. It could be the way a person talks or what they talk about with potential partners. Do they make suggestive comments or flirty jabs? Maybe it's the clothes they wear — do they flaunt lean arms or a toned stomach? Most of the time, seductiveness is just a general vibe.

The most important thing to remember here is that a person's exterior says very little about what they're like behind closed doors. In order to get an idea whether someone's outward behavior carries over to the bedroom, you'll probably need to look to their other sexual dimensions as well.

A test to determine their level of seductive behavior
>> You have no complaints about being seduced — except when the seducer can't find their "off" button.<< YES!  Can you flirt, tease, charm; can you tell when you're being flirted with, seduced, and charmed? Yippe!! There is however a time and a place for it, and there are times when it's a turn-off!  Everything in moderadion! The best way to figure out if they know the right and wrong times for seduction is to take them to some non-sexual settings. Go to the grocery store with them, watch a play, or get together with a group of friends for brunch. If they don't know how to moderate their seductive moves, then you might have a potentially annoying situation on your hands. And on the exact flip side... He shouldn't need everything explained or a cordial invitation shouldn't need be sent to get the ball rolling either! "Hello, I'm going to flirt with you now" - kinda ruins my moment!

Focus On Orgasm

The Focus On Orgasm dimension measures how important orgasms are for your sex partner. Some people focus exclusively on how to reach orgasm, while others enjoy sex and everything that leads up to orgasm just as much. Of course, you want to find someone who feels like you do about sex — that >> orgasms nice but not the main focus by any means. << Necessary... but not in the first 10 laps!!  Unless that is, you're capable giving and receiving of more than one!!

How to spot it when you see it
Needless to say, orgasm-focused people are goal-oriented. They may even be a little competitive. Keep an eye on someone who likes to one-up other people's stories with their own or who is a little cutthroat when it comes to games. These are sure signs that they are focused on an end result and gets a little high when they reach it. You tend to prefer someone far less intense — one who can have fun with a game, but doesn't take it so seriously.

Another thing about goal-oriented people is that they're highly visual. They're able to focus on how things look and tend to strive for beauty as the ultimate ideal. If someone is always commenting on your appearance or the appearance of everyone around them, chances are they're a little more orgasm-focused than you. You want to gravitate towards people who aren't consumed by how things look. You want someone who can appreciate the bigger picture.

A test to determine their level of focus on orgasm
Throughout our research, Emode has found that people who agreed with the statement "When I close my eyes, I am able to think more clearly" tended to be the same ones who found orgasms extremely important. So, why not try this out on your potential partner?

Simply find a subtle way to ask them, "Do you find that when you close your eyes you are able to think more clearly?" If they answer "yes!" clearly and firmly it's a safe bet that orgasms are extremely important to their sexual enjoyment. If they give you a so-so answer, assume that they love a good orgasm, but it's not the be-all, end-all of their sex lives. If they just can't imagine that closing their eyes would help them think better — chances are they're into sex for the enjoyment of it all, not just to reach orgasm.

So, now you know what to look for, but the question remains: what is the likelihood of even finding someone like this?

Since 10.8% of all men are a Type 4, it depends on whether that's a large enough pool for you to choose from. If you'd like to expand your options, read about the two other types who may not be your ideal partner, but who definitely share a lot in common with you sexually.

Your next best fit is with a Type 8.
A Type 8 match is the consummate sexual partner — able to keep up with you, experiment with you, and even anticipate your next moves. Because your relationship is so particularly close, you can be sure that this partner is more than just a lover, they are involved with you as your friend, as well. Their ability to intuit your moods and interpret your body language helps make a relationship with this person seem effortless.

You love each other's company both out in the world and behind closed doors during your most intimate moments. There's an emotional connection here that just feels natural. This shows up as affection and affection is the crux of your relationship.

When you feel that easy chemistry, it opens a new world. You and your Type 8 are able to experiment and get creative because anything you do sexually is just adding to your world emotionally. It's strengthening that connection. Like you, your Type 8 partner is most concerned with exploring your sexual lives together and trying new things rather than focusing exclusively on the physical end goal each time you get intimate. So enjoy the journey with your match. It's sure to be a fulfilling experience.

Approximately 2.2% of all men are this type.

Your third best fit is with a Type 7.
A Type 7 partner needs to know that their sexual relationship is within the confines of a loving partnership. Once that is established, they can fully show you how sexually creative and affectionate they can be. Your ideal partner wants to feel that the love of your monogamous relationship is what fuels the passion and your attraction to one another.

In some ways, this makes your match a sexual surprise of sorts as they slowly peel back the layers of their approach to sex with you. Since this partner cannot really separate the feeling of love with the physical feelings associated with sex, you can count on them being utterly emotionally connected to you during your sexual relations. The emotional depth is what makes them so different from many of the other types. Without a doubt, this is someone you can always rely on to be honest and sincere — and that's likely to be what attracts you to them in the first place.

Once you've won their trust, it's just a matter of watching them go! Their creative drive is strong and they have the courage and ability to experiment in the emotional realm the way someone else might explore with more physical acts. Your Type 7 is someone who is worth building a strong foundation with since they'll be able to take you places you never knew existed.

Approximately 8.1% of all men are this type.

The more you understand about what you want in an ideal sexual partner, the more complete your sex life and relationships will be in general. While this test is the first step towards a more fulfilling future, we don't want it to end there.

To give you even deeper insight about what you need in a sexual relationship and how to find it, we're going to send you four follow-up emails — one per week for the next four weeks.

During this time we will take a closer look at your test answers so we can tailor more advice to your particular personality. We'll help you take your Ideal Sexual Partner test one step further with advice on what your ideal sex partner's views on monogamy and foreplay are. You'll learn what they like to do after sex and — most importantly — how to turn your current or future sexual partner into your ideal.

Look for your first mailing in one week!

This test was derived primarily from the results of sexual relationship research that Emode gathered through questions that hundreds of thousands of people have answered. By searching for patterns in the data, Emode identified five key dimensions that comprise a person's sexual personality, or what they are like as a sexual partner: sexual experience, value of emotional connection, seductive behavior, libido, and focus on orgasm.

From that we identified clusters of people who exhibited very similar behaviors along those five dimensions. This led to the derivation of the total 10 sexual personality types.

The sexual personality test questions were based on extensive research and literature on sexuality, focusing on the characteristics of a sexual partner that really make a difference to the value and pleasure involved in sexual experiences. We found that a set of dimensions and questions best represented these, and this formed the foundation of the Ideal Sexual Partner test.

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