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Your love personality type is a composite of seven personality dimensions.
Together they make up your love personality type, and individually they
offer insight about particular aspects of how you look at the world
and those around you.
Be aware that some people with the same personality type will have
different dimension scores. Only by looking at both someone's type and
dimensions can you get the full picture of who they are.
Here are your scores relative to others who took the test:
Dimension #1: Pampered versus Rugged
Those who scored as more rugged are outdoorsy types who generally
enjoy being out in nature. They're also individuals who are willing
to take risks and get a little dirty in order to have some fun. For
highly rugged people, the world is their playground as well as their
sanctuary.
Individuals who are more pampered include people who appreciate the
many creature comforts associated with civilization. Pampered types
typically prefer that their recreation be of the indoor variety.
Your results show that compared to other people who took the test,
you fall on the more rugged side of the line. This suggests that you
aren't afraid to get down and dirty when the time is right. You appear
to be comfortable in natural settings and don't seem to mind the unpredictable
quality inherent in outdoor activities. In fact, you likely appreciate
being out in nature because of the many surprises it offers. This comfort
with your surroundings likely carries over to other aspects of your
life as well. If so, the result is a confidence that can be very calming
to others. In love, it will be important to find a partner who also
has a passion for nature. If not on the same level as you, at least
enough so you can share the kinds of experiences that you value.
Dimension #2: Down-to-earth versus Dreamy
Individuals high on the dreamy scale include those people who would
choose the bubbles of champagne over a glass of wine simply because
it seemed a more romantic gesture. Highly dreamy people tend to see
the magic in life. They may also actively seek out ways to make their
love relationships special so that each day becomes an occasion.
People who are more down-to earth prefer life's everyday moments to
grand gestures that seem over-the-top. They are realists who aren't
easily swayed by styling or symbolism. For the most part, down-to-earth
people would rather avoid glossy exteriors to get closer to what's on
the inside. This tendency typically holds true across the board —
in their friendships, in professional life, and in love.
Compared with others, your score weighed more heavily on the dreamy
end of the scale. This result indicates that you have a more idealized
way of seeing life than many people do. At times, your talent for imbuing
the things around you with fantasy and romance gives you an air of elegance
and wonder that others can be drawn to. In love, you know how to lavish
special attention on the object of your affection and appreciate others
who can reciprocate. Typically, romantic gestures aren't lost on you.
On the contrary, you're usually one of those people who can really appreciate
the magic of a well-timed kiss or a moonlight stroll. Dreamy types like
you can be experts when it comes to courting. Just make sure that once
you've found that special relationship you don't fall into the trap
of thinking it's going to be just like it is in the movies. Once the
two of you have walked off into the sunset, making your love last will
still take some work. However, with your talent for keeping romance
in bloom, you appear to be the perfect person for the job.
Dimension #3: Emotional versus Rational
Those who scored high on the rational scale are people who can usually
take a step back during a heated situation in order to think out how
best to respond. When provoked, their level-headedness makes them more
likely to step back from an argument rather than fan the flames. Rational
types are also typically strong thinkers who enjoy working through challenging
problems to find a solution.
Those who scored more highly on the emotional scale tend to respond
to intense situations by expressing their feelings as they have them.
In this way, emotional people can sometimes come across as being either
intense or impulsive. On the positive side, people who are highly emotional
tend to be more direct than their rational counterparts and can be good
about confronting issues in order to clear the air.
Compared with others, your results indicate that you're more rational
than many people who took the test. This means that you're someone who
is quite capable when it comes to logical reasoning. In fact, it's likely
that you apply this valuable ability in a variety of situations, both
personal and professional. Being rational and even-tempered can indeed
serve you well, particularly during long-term relationships; almost
no couple experiences constant bliss. At times when the road gets rocky,
your deliberate way of processing difficult emotions can help you and
your partner create more focus and direction in your relationship. It
will also keep shouting matches to a minimum.
Being high on the rational scale means that you have a talent for
observing what's happening in your own life. By being witness to events
and your reactions to them, you can make more conscious choices for
yourself. Not everyone has this ability. On the contrary, many people
let their emotions pull them off-center and miss great opportunities.
So be happy you have a good head on your shoulders. Being the voice
of reason can be an attractive quality. It can also make you more compatible
with the many people who'll come into your life.
Dimension #4: Independent versus Connected
People who are highly connected tend to make their relationships
with others a priority. They keep in close touch with family and friends
when they can and are usually softhearted, empathic people.
Highly independent people tend to be less open with those around them
than their connected counterparts. They typically enjoy having time
to themselves. Independent types are apt to search for meaning in ideas,
things, or particular experiences more often than in their relationships.
As a result, they can be at their best whether they're in a relationship
or flying solo.
Compared with the other people who took this test, your score weighed
more heavily on the realistic end of the scale. This means that although
you surely appreciate the presence of others in your life, you're often
your own best companion. In fact, there are certain things that you
probably prefer to do alone, even if you don't have to. Whether you
enjoy taking yourself to a movie now and then or simply for a quiet
drive, you seem to be one of those people who understand that quality
time doesn't always have to mean social time. So while you likely appreciate
the chance to socialize with friends and family, you're apt to covet
your down time as well.
When it comes to relationships, you're not usually one to dive right
in with your heart on your sleeve. Instead, you're more likely to hold
back a bit and open up to the new romance more slowly. This kind of
distance may simply feel safer. However, once you let yourself fall
deeply in love, you can develop as close and real a bond as anyone out
there.
Dimension #5: Easygoing versus Particular
Highly particular people tend to strive for perfection in whatever
they do. They also tend to have refined, and at times expensive, tastes.
Appearance can be important to particular types, so taking care of themselves
is often a high priority.
Easygoing people, on the other hand, don't tend to place a lot of
importance on appearances. "Keeping up with the Joneses,"
whether in beauty, fashion, or possessions, isn't typically a top priority
for easygoing types. They tend to be more impressed by things that have
little to do with life's trappings.
In your case, you scored on the more easy-going end of the continuum
compared with others who took the test. This indicates that you generally
aren't too worried about having a place for everything and everything
in its place. On the contrary, most times you tend to think it's more
important to just be who you are and take life as it comes. So if your
slacks aren't pressed or you're having a bad hair day, it's not likely
to throw you for a loop. Instead, you're one of those people who seems
to know that there are more important things than your appearance. You're
also not the type to be awed by power or celebrity. In fact, if you
saw your favorite actor in the supermarket, you'd probably simply smile
and say hello rather than clamoring for an autograph. The people in
your life likely see this laid back nature and appreciate that you're
willing to take them as they are. The ease you often possess can be
an attractive force; it makes have a you calming presence to those you
are near.
Dimension #6: Modern versus Traditional
People who are more traditional tend to carry those feelings over
into their search for love. For example, traditional types tend to believe
that when a man and a woman go on a date, the man should pay. They're
also likely to feel that red roses are the perfect gift for a first
date and that idealistic weddings are the only way to go. For someone
who is traditional, tried-and-true rituals are important to uphold.
People who are more modern are likely to hold a contrary opinion.
For one, they'll often feel that people on a date should split the bill.
They may also think that a Vegas wedding is just as good as a church
service. It all depends on the people involved and what feels special
to them. In addition, modern types tend to believe in equality in relationships
and seek true respect from their significant others.
Your score on the Love Test shows that you're less traditional than
many other people who took it. This means that when it comes to love,
you're more likely to go with what you feel in a given situation, rather
than follow an established tradition. This is especially true in the
beginning of a relationship. So in the early days of love, you're as
apt to hold the door for your date as they are to hold it for you. After
all, you probably figure that common courtesy is a valuable trait in
a man or a woman. It's not gender-specific. Conforming to idealistic
roles during courtship typically isn't your forte, so if your date expects
you to act by these standards, you might find yourself losing interest.
However, don't be surprised if when you know this person better you
find yourself drifting into a more conventional pattern on your own.
Sometimes it just happens. However, in your case, assuming such a role
wouldn't be so much a personal judgment as it would be a preference.
As long as you're living in accordance with your values, whether behavior
is traditional or not doesn't really matter.
Dimension #7: Humble versus Self-possessed
People who score highly on being self-possessed are generally confident
types who believe strongly in their abilities. This feeling may translate
into a sense of pride in their level of physical fitness, a sense of
assurance about their intellectual abilities, or a high regard for their
sexual prowess. Highly self-possessed people often have a charisma and
energy that makes them the center of attention.
Individuals who score more highly on the humble end of the scale are
typically grounded people who would usually prefer to go unnoticed rather
than make a big fuss. So instead of trumpeting their achievements to
others, humble types will often opt to celebrate their successes in
private. People who are highly humble also tend to be humanists who
see others as equals, rather than feeling superior to anyone.
Compared with others, you scored on the more grounded end of the continuum.
This means that you're not likely to go around boasting to others about
your abilities or worth. Your humility is the stronger virtue. You can
possess a kind of quiet strength that doesn't need to be voiced. It
simply is. You're one of those people that others probably describe
as "the salt of the Earth," because you're likely to appreciate
and recognize others rather than put yourself first. This humble quality
that you embody can actually help you when you need to make tough decisions.
Unencumbered by arrogance, you're likely to see a situation for what
it is and make choices accordingly, rather than being impulsive or unduly
confident.
In love, being humble can sometimes make you seem more genuine to
others, because it's obvious that you're not all about self-aggrandizement
and flash. You're just yourself. While this quiet nature of yours is
an admirable thing, remember that it's okay to toot your own horn once
and a while. Feeling good about yourself isn't the same thing as feeling
superior to others. For people like you, the trick is to be humble while
still truly loving yourself for who you are. |