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Zodiac Match Report (according to eMode)

Rosie, in addition to knowing that your strongest zodiac match is Capricorn, we've also generated a personalized Zodiac Match chart for you. This chart is custom-made based on your answers to the Zodiac Match test responses, and guides you to the astrological signs that are best suited to you, and shows you where you may encounter difficulties with less compatible signs.

The chart is color-coded to help you identify different levels of compatibility between you and the 12 zodiac signs.

Look for the GREEN wedges in your chart. People with those signs are your surest matches. A relationship with one of your green signs is apt to be more smooth and easy from the get-go. You're also likely to find greater long-term comfort and compatibility with a green match.

If you've got your heart set on someone whose sign is shaded in YELLOW, never fear — these matches can suit you, too. It just may take a bit more effort on your part. By paying special attention to the advice below regarding potentially problem areas, you can learn some great ways to avoid typical pitfalls with your yellow signs. If you proceed with a little caution and are willing to do the work, in the end your romance with a yellow could be just as satisfying as any pairing with a green.

But if a RED has captured your attention, watch out. There are signs that such a relationship might not be the best for you. Over time, pursuing a pairing with a red may end up feeling more like work than fun. But if you're unswayed by this warning, you'll do best to study your partner's sign in depth. That way you can be prepared for the differences between you and better understand the kinds of conflicts you're likely to encounter.





Sign
Compatibility
Trait
Capricorn
79%
Capricorns are patient and exacting but can also be reluctant and overly cautious.
Aquarius
77%
Aquarians are thoughtful and innovative but can also be unpredictable and apathetic.
Aries
70%
Arians are enthusiastic and confident but can also be impulsive and impatient.
Scorpio
70%
Scorpios are exciting and magnetic but can also be jealous and resentful.
Leo
68%
Leos are generous and loving but can also be overbearing and intrusive.
Gemini
67%
Geminis are flexible and youthful but can also be unstable and erratic.
Virgo
65%
Virgos are meticulous and reliable but can also be overcritical and austere.
Taurus
64%
Taureans are warm and loving but can also be jealous and possessive.
Sagittarius
62%
Sagittarians are honest and to the point but can also be irresponsible and brash.
Cancer
61%
Cancerians are intuitive and tender but can also be oversensitive and clingy.
Libra
54%
Libras are romantic and charming but can also be wishy-washy and gullible.
Pisces
27%
Pisces are compassionate and kind but can also be malleable and vague.

Now that you know which signs will make you happiest and offer you the best opportunity to experience true love, it's time to get to know more about each of your 12 potential matches. In this section, Emode will detail the best — and the worst — of each astrological sign in relation to your personality.

Your future with Capricorn the Goat (December 22 to January 20)

Capricorn is one of your very best matches. The Goat possesses both ambition and the kind of strong work ethic that you seem to especially admire. You're also one who's usually able to look past a Capricorn's habit of being unforgiving of those who aren't as diligent as they are. These factors can make the two of you a perfect pairing.

You can usually hone in on potential Capricorn partners by looking for people who exude self-confidence and talk a lot about their work. Often these down-to-earth people prefer to roll up their sleeves and get down to business over anything else. This preference is often reflected in their choice of conversation topics at social functions. Capricorns are generally polite and somewhat reserved people who appear traditional or dignified in their carriage. Overall, you'll probably be attracted to the confidence a Capricorn can exude. However, you'll probably also wish that they were more geared toward pleasure and entertainment.

Capricorns are known for being goal oriented and dedicated. In fact, many people of this sign fully expect to be at the top of their chosen fields in due time. Diligent, productive, and organized, Capricorns keep a conservative posture in most aspects of their lives. More than most of the other signs, the Goat follows the center path of moderation and doesn't make waves. They seem to feel that the surest way to the top is through steady effort and playing it safe. You can admire a Capricorn's focus on the future and dedication to the things they believe in. This steadiness in their direction may even provide you with some much-desired security.

Ultimately, a Capricorn's hope is to reap the rewards of their hard labor once they've reached the top. Many Capricorns have their eyes on accumulating wealth and becoming well known for what they do. You'll probably question the value of such goals, especially if it means that your Capricorn's career eclipses the importance of your relationship, even if only for short periods of time.

In addition to being diligent in their chosen profession, Capricorns are often very skilled in manners of money and management. They tend to be conservative by nature and act with caution, preferring to save or invest rather than spend. In this regard, you are well matched with the Goat. As long as you both honor your mutual financial goals and commitments, you should have little to argue about when it comes to money.

The Goat can be a little egotistical at times. Many carry themselves through life with a sense of entitlement. Put another way, many Capricorns feel that they've worked long and hard to get where they are — and they're going to let you know they're proud of it. So if the Goat crosses paths with someone who seems to be standing in their way or refusing to pitch in, they can become cross and unforgiving. But you probably won't let a Capricorn's bearing rattle you. You may even understand where they're coming from. And even if you don't, their gruff exterior isn't likely to frighten you. Still, know that most of the time Capricorns are patient, steady, and calm in the pursuit of their dreams.

By trying to be the best and reach the top, many Capricorns develop the kind of confidence that can make them potent authority figures. In your own life, you may come to trust your Capricorn's no-nonsense advice and treasure their self-assured opinions. Because a Capricorn almost always seems to know what's right, it is easy to become one of their followers.

In the bedroom, a Capricorn lover will be initially cool, becoming more passionate the more you get to know them. Above all, Capricorns are practical people who do not enter into relationships lightly. As a result, don't be surprised if the sexual component of your relationship appears only after you've built a strong companionship. Once your relationship does reach a sexual level, you'll probably find that your Capricorn has quite a lusty sex drive. So in a relationship's early stages, you're likely to be a bit frustrated by a Capricorn. But be patient. Whatever develops between the two of you may be well worth the wait.

When Capricorns make up their minds, they generally stick to their master plans with very little variance. So if you want to divert a Capricorn from their personal agenda, be ready for some work. Persuading a Goat to go a different way can indeed be challenging. And probably that's all right with you. Especially because most times you'll respect your Capricorn's high level of resolve and give them plenty of room to take care of business as they see fit.

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How to attract a Capricorn
If you're looking to meet a Capricorn, remember these are hardworking, future-focused people. Therefore, you'll probably have the most luck finding them at work or at industry-related conferences or meetings. In an office setting, the Capricorn will be the one who consistently works overtime.

Once you've met and set your sights on a Capricorn, get them to notice you by:

  • Being serious. Capricorns admire a certain amount of aloofness. this Gemeni likes this too
  • Having power. They're attracted to a commanding presence. Commanding presence - yes; Power - not necessarily
  • Being ambitious. Show your Capricorn that you have a strong work ethic. this Gemeni likes this too
  • Having money; this is a sure way to turn their heads. this Gemeni could careless about money
  • Being responsible. The Goat won't stand for it if you're not. this Gemeni agrees

But watch out — you can sabotage your efforts by:

  • Having a dead-end job. Capricorns want to see ambition and potential in you. this Gemeni agrees
  • Living in a fantasy world. A Capricorn wants your plans for the future to be practical. this Gemeni agrees
  • Revealing a dark past. The Goat lives in moderation and wants you to, as well. Sorry - this Gemeni has a dark and a colorful past and won't deny it's existance... it's part of who I am.

Your future with Aquarius the Water Bearer (January 21 to February 19)

Aquarius is a very fine match for you. The Water Bearer's idealism and passion for creating positive social change is a good fit with your own personality. You also seem to be able to tolerate Aquarians' impatience with those who don't share their beliefs. Because of the idealistic bent you share, a lasting romance can surely blossom between you and an Aquarius.

You can often spot potential Aquarius partners by either the sociable air about them or the way they involve themselves in causes. The Water Bearer's talkative nature will likely attract you, especially if you're interested in the issues that they believe in. People of this sign will usually be easy to approach because they love to get others involved with social action or in their community. All you have to do is ask them how you can help. They're apt to quickly take you up on your offer. From there, your relationship can develop along its natural course.

An Aquarian's primary concern is to make the world a better place. You don't need to share the same level of passion about issues in order for your relationship to work. However, you do need to make certain that the two of you aren't working for opposing forces. Most Aquarians find it hard to be involved with someone whom they disagree with wholeheartedly about political or social agendas. The Water Bearer's passion and hope for the future will likely inspire you a good deal. You're apt to be proud of their efforts and thankful that they have something they believe in so strongly.

Aquarians are known for being intelligent, creative people who are skilled at solving disputes. Their social focus can also make them excellent negotiators, leaders, and communicators, particularly when fueled by the passion of a just cause. An Aquarius normally won't take up causes lightly; most are well informed and work to stay that way. At times, their strong beliefs may push them to research problems rather deeply to come up with new and innovative ideas for change. You'll probably find this kind of in-depth knowledge really attractive. You seem to appreciate the kind of people who can turn their personal passions into action.

When opposed by pessimistic critics, Aquarians can transform from easygoing activists into temperamental defenders of their causes. Know that people of this sign can be often be set in their ways. They're also quite headstrong when their beliefs are challenged. At times when the two of you disagree, you'll probably understand an Aquarian's irritation isn't a personal attack. They simply possess a different view than you do. Your ability to separate yourselves from the opinions you hold leaves you both in a good position to discuss issues rationally, without feeling very angry or hurt.

One admirable trait that most Aquarians embody is that when they see trouble on the horizon, their response tends to be an optimistic one. So if there's a silver lining to any situation, the Water Bearer will find it. This positivity helps an Aquarius buffer the occasional setbacks or failures they experience. By believing that things will get better, they muster the will to keep pushing ahead in their own life. For the most part, you'll really love an Aquarian's persistent sense of optimism. You may even learn a little bit from them about the power of positive thinking.

In the bedroom, an Aquarius lover will tend to be discrete and cautious at first. Most times they want to be certain that all areas of your relationship are strong before plunging into its sexual aspects. However, once your relationship does become sexual, you're likely to find the Water Bearer both playful and warm-hearted. However, many Aquarians have a sex drive that may remain quite low throughout your relationship. The Water Bearer is the opposite of fiery and jealous. They are simply devoted, sincere partners. You may find a relationship with an Aquarius somewhat slow moving or asexual. On the bright side, your emotional needs are likely to be more than satisfied.

Aquarians are altruistic people who can be determined to make a difference for others. As such, they often feel a responsibility to complete their "missions." Because they see themselves as working for the common good, people of this sign sometimes feel a bit righteous in their actions. They don't take well to having their best-laid plans criticized, nor do they readily tolerate being told what to do. You're apt to respect this quality in an Aquarius. You admire their strength and resolve when criticized or given orders contrary to their wishes.

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How to attract an Aquarius
If you're looking to meet an Aquarius, remember they're typically idealistic and interested in making the world a better place. You'll probably have the most luck finding the Water Bearer volunteering for social causes, helping their friends, or involved in community work.

Once you've met and set your sights on an Aquarius, get them to notice you by:

  • Sharing intelligent opinions. Speak up and let them know that you are kindred spirits. this Gemeni likes this too
  • Being a free spirit. Aquarians love a person with an independent mind and attitude. this Gemeni likes this too
  • Rebelling against the status quo. The Water Bearer wants to see things changed for the better. this Gemeni likes this too
  • Understanding politics. If you aren't up on current events, you probably won't hold much interest for an Aquarius. Sorry, this Gemeni is too busy to keep up on politics
  • Being original. Aquarians love new ideas. this Gemeni likes this too

But watch out — you can sabotage your efforts by:

  • Not keeping promises. An Aquarius depends on you and expects you to follow through. this Gemeni agrees
  • Leaving them alone too much. Aquarians are socially oriented and need lots of interaction.
  • Being too "normal." The Water Bearer is often repelled by the straight and narrow path.

Your future with Aries the Ram (March 21 to April 20)

You're well matched with an Aries. In fact, this is one of your best matches. You're the type of person who can truly appreciate the Ram's enthusiasm for life and excitement about the future. You also seem to be more able than most to put up with an Aries's need to push their viewpoint on all who will listen. To you, an Arian's finer points will typically well outweigh their faults. Because of this fact, you can indeed create a lasting romance with an Aries mate.

You'll recognize potential Aries partners by their easy smiles or by the way casually wink at you when you're introduced at a party. Social gatherings are comfortable stomping grounds for gregarious Rams — and they're not above flirting to get your attention. Chances are that you'll respond well to an Aries's playful advances and enjoy their chatty, engaging company. But watch out — if you reciprocate, flirt with your Aries only. If they see you making eyes at someone else, you're sure to lose points with them.

On the whole, Arians are bold, aggressive, and ready to take on the world. Their inner strength and courage give them the stamina required to compete and win. As a result of these traits, the Ram is well prepared to argue their side of any debate. For you, this outspokenness is likely to be a refreshing change from those who believe that expressing passionate opinions is impolite. If you've somehow pushed an Aries's buttons, they'll usually hang in there until the situation between you is resolved. This tenacity is admirable, but it also makes them difficult to disagree with. Arians are famous for making sure that they have the last word in most any argument.

An Aries is the perfect partner to satisfy your desire for a mate who isn't afraid to let their dominant side shine. In fact, you're likely to find great comfort and safety in an Aries's ability to firmly and strongly take the lead. It's okay to feel this way — and to embrace it even — just as long as you know where your boundaries are. Otherwise your wants and needs may take a backseat to those of your Aries partner. Arians don't mean to steamroller those they love. However, at times they can become swept up in their own purpose and forget to be considerate to those around them. By being direct and straightforward with your Aries, they can learn to respect and better understand your limits.

People born under the sign of Aries can be visionary leaders. They often excel at getting new things off the ground and are typically skilled at rallying support for their causes. The Ram's personal magnetism and energy make them a pleasure to follow on their valiant journey into the unknown. And that's often exactly where they're headed; Aries individuals can be fascinated by the new and unfamiliar. However, once the new is known, an Arian is likely to get restless and look further into the future for new adventures. Because of this constant push for change, Arians aren't known for their follow-through.

Because the Ram has such a keen interest in the future, the two of you will see eye-to-eye on many matters. Personally, you'll probably find their optimism admirable as your Aries pushes onward toward new goals of their own and in your relationship. You'll likely be quite proud of them for dedicating their gallant efforts to the things you both believe in. You want a partner who knows what they want and has the drive to get it; an Aries is a perfect match for you in this way.

Aries people tend to get very involved in their projects. As a result, you may find that your relationship suffers from lack of attention from time to time, particularly if you're counting on an avid courtship. This fact is apt to be troubling and worrisome to you. However, you would do well to turn your attention to other things at times when your Arian is focused elsewhere. When an Aries gets consumed by something, it can be very difficult to pull them away. If you begin to feel neglected as a result of your Ram's other endeavors, confront them about your specific concerns and ask for more attention. If you state your case plainly, the two of you will most likely be able to come to a compromise that makes you both happier.

The Ram's focus and strength sometimes leads to bluntness and a sharp tongue, but you're someone who can usually handle those things like a champ. If you don't let your Aries push you around, you'll be just fine. It's important to understand that Arians usually have distinct ideas about the way things should be, and they aren't shy about letting people in on their views. Pleasantries are lost on an Aries when they're serious about discussing something. In a Ram's eyes, candor and directness are always virtues.

In the bedroom, an Arian lover is apt to show enthusiasm and desire for the physicality of sex. They are known for being connoisseurs of pleasure and enjoy beauty in all of its forms. Arians can be very generous lovers, displaying an eagerness and sense of delight that is easy to get swept away by. However, when it comes to romance, most Aries aren't much for mushy love stuff. That's probably just fine with you, as sappy sentimentality isn't something either of you appear to revel in. Also, at times when things get heated between you and your Aries, you my need to ask this ardent lover to slow down — that is, unless you're just as raring to go as they are.

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How to attract an Aries
If you're looking to meet an Aries, remember they are social, energetic people. As a result, they can often be found at a variety of social events, playing sports, or working for the causes they believe in. You may want to try getting involved in a local volunteer group or joining an amateur athletic team.

Once you've met and set your sights on an Aries, you can get them to notice you by:

  • Exhibiting independence. Show them that you can think for yourself. this Gemeni agrees
  • Being spontaneous and courageous. Suggest an adventurous outing together on the fly. this Gemeni agrees, but would like to plan ahead vs. on the fly!
  • Engaging them in friendly competition. You get bonus points if they win.
  • Being assertive, not easy. They enjoy the challenge of a hard-to-get love interest. this Gemeni appreciates assertivenes... not the playinghard-to-get game tho
  • Work on your physique. A Ram loves to see strength in their partner.

But watch out — you can sabotage your efforts by:

  • Making them wait. Arians have a lot going on and don't like to waste time.
  • Giving them unsolicited advice. They're pretty sure they know what's right on their own.
  • Letting them beat you too easily in competition. They like to win, but they also like to see you try your best. this Gemeni agrees

Your future with Scorpio the Scorpion (October 24 to November 22)

A Scorpio is a great match for you. For one thing, you seem to really connect with the Scorpion's intensity and depth of feeling and to admire them for these qualities. You're also the kind who can be understanding about a Scorpio's tendency to overreact to things they perceive to be threats. After all, you're not going to let an occasional over-the-top moment put a damper on your chances for romance. In fact, if you play your cards right, you and a Scorpio may find true love.

You can pick out potential Scorpio partners by their self-confident carriage when they walk into a room and by their intense gazes. Unlike people who may be more timid or remote, most Scorpios aren't afraid of a little eye contact. At times, the Scorpion's stare can make it seem as if they can see into your very soul. More often than not, they are supremely assured and determined. If they take a fancy to you, you can bet you'll be persistently and aggressively pursued. Scorpios are known for being unfamiliar with the concept of quitting. If a Scorpio's head turns in your direction, you'll probably be flattered by their heated pursuit. You can appreciate someone with that kind of confidence and command. It's also nice not to have to play hard to get, because the Scorpion isn't all about the chase.

When a Scorpio decides what they want, they can be intent on getting it. In fact, if the Scorpion feels an objective is in danger of being derailed, they can lash out quickly and strongly in an effort to protect it. Scorpios are known for being exceedingly resourceful. So although they may not win the battle, this sign has every intention of winning the war. Strong and intent on their ideals, a Scorpio has a unique ability to focus on their purpose and see it through. You'll usually admire a Scorpio's convictions and support their ambitions. For you, it's probably a relief to find someone who knows what they want.

When Scorpios want to know something, they don't mince words when collecting facts. They go straight to the essential questions. In this way, their sign has earned a real reputation for directness and for their skill extracting information from others. In their role as questioner, Scorpios can have an almost authoritarian way about them. Listening to a Scorpio voice their inquiries, you might assume that they were in a position of power. In fact, sometimes they are. You're likely to find yourself strangely attracted to this aura. As a result, a Scorpio might be able to draw out your deepest secrets without much trouble. Perhaps you'll find this kind of sharing liberating, but be careful how much personal information you give away. At times, the Scorpion has been known to be vindictive. You don't want your openness to come back to sting you.

Scorpios have a highly developed sense of intuition, but it's sometimes a little overactive. As a result, Scorpios can get a little paranoid. If they feel that you've treated them unjustly — whether or not this feeling is based on fact — a Scorpio can become jealous, vindictive, and spiteful. Compared to most people, it's relatively easy for you to roll with a Scorpio's emotional outbursts. You may see their antics as a cry for help, which, more often than not, is true. Even when their extreme reactions are difficult to manage, under it all, Scorpios mostly want their emotions to be soothed and brought back into balance. You're well suited to handle the Scorpion's extremes, even when they become angry. Somehow, for you a Scorpio's positive qualities will usually make up for the emotional fires you'll need to put out in your relationship.

Although the Scorpion can have highly fluctuating emotions, people of this sign usually try to keep their inner feelings under wraps — at least to strangers and acquaintances. So until you get to know a Scorpio better, you'll probably think that they're pretty level characters. You might even find them a tad secretive. This closed-off nature may disturb you some. However, as you gain a Scorpio's trust over time, know that they're likely to become more candid. In fact, you may discover that becoming privy to a Scorpio partner's emotional intensity and depth is well worth the wait.

In the bedroom, a Scorpio lover will often be lusty and passionate in the extreme. How could these highly emotional and powerful people be any different? Scorpios are also known for being devoted and caring when it comes to their romantic partners. People of this sign like to give their all, and sex is no exception. You will likely be intoxicated by the energetic Scorpion. Their high libido is likely to keep you fired up night after night.

The Scorpio's intensity can lead to fiery discussions and heated arguments. Remember that the Scorpion is both insightful and cunning. This gives them an edge should they decide to employ manipulation during debate — a tactic not uncommon among Scorpios. At times when a Scorpio has an issue with you, they'll almost certainly let you know about it. But these facts won't keep you from getting along with a Scorpio. You don't seem like one who's afraid of confrontation. By wanting to know where your partner stands, even when they're somewhat outspoken, you make yourself a good Scorpio match.

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How to attract a Scorpio
If you're looking to meet a Scorpio, remember that they're known for being outspoken and intense. Scorpios will often make an appearance at social events, but even in those situations they do best in one-on-one conversation. So at a party, try looking in less populated corners of the room for your Scorpio. They'll be the one with intense eyes who can engage you in deep conversation.

Once you've met and set your sights on a Scorpio, you can get them to notice you by:

  • Showing your intensity. Make eye contact. this Gemeni agrees
  • Having an air of danger. Scorpios love to take a walk on the wild side. this Gemeni agrees
  • Keeping your will strong. They abhor pushovers. this Gemeni agrees
  • Being seductive. The Scorpion is easily swayed by sensual advances. this Gemeni agrees
  • Hinting at your secrets. They love an air of intrigue. this Gemeni agrees

But watch out — you can sabotage your efforts by:

  • Withholding information. Scorpios pride themselves on extracting your secrets. this Gemeni agrees - lying by omission
  • Flattering them. They can tell when people are insincere. this Gemeni agrees
  • Taking advantage of them. This will only make a Scorpio angry and vindictive. this Gemeni agrees

Your future with Leo the Lion (July 23 to August 22)

You are very well matched with a Leo. This is due, in part, to the Lion's animal magnetism and pridefulness. You seem to really appreciate the charismatic way most Leos have about them. You're also more willing than most to tolerate a Leo's tendency to be self-centered or egotistical. You probably feel that it's more important to have a mate with personal presence than it is to be with someone particularly humble. Because of these preferences, when romantic sparks fly between you and a Leo, true love may indeed be the result.

You'll recognize potential Leo partners by the way they can capture everyone's attention when they enter a room. The Lion loves to strut at social events and will often be the center of attention. To that end, Leos are typically outgoing, self-assured, and flamboyant. Romantically, it's not uncommon for Leos to have admirers lined up around the block vying for their charismatic company. You're likely among this crowd. After all, personal charm is one of the things that most attracts you.

More often than not, Leos are loyal partners and are not the cheating type. On the contrary, they tend to romanticize their relationships and don't allow for much flexibility when it comes to honor. You're apt to find great peace in the knowledge that your love is secure with your Leo. When issues do arise in your relationship, you can trust the Lion to come to you first.

Pleasure can be an enormous draw for Leos. They love to have a good time, and they want you to enjoy life, too. One way they help to ensure this is by being generous. They'll relish seeing the joy you get from any gift that they bestow upon you. You're the kind who will truly appreciate these small declarations of a Leo's affection. When receiving a gift, you're apt to both graciously accept it and give your Lion the strokes they need to feel valued. The tokens Leos give can get quite pricey, in part because most Leos love to spend money. This habit will likely seem too excessive for your tastes. You're more apt to appreciate a mate who sets sensible limits.

Another one of the Leo's hallmark traits is that they are natural leaders. As such, these individuals often possess both great courage and a high tolerance for risk. The Lion often charges forward fearlessly into new endeavors, letting things sort out as they will. You're one partner who'll probably be happy to join them in such ambitious pursuits. A little risk isn't likely to scare you away. But regardless of whether you're up for joining them, Leos will usually forge ahead. They can't help it. It's in their nature.

No matter what the situation, a Leo partner isn't the type who's afraid to show their dominant side. This might be just fine with you, as it can be fun for you to let someone else take the lead. Go ahead and embrace the comfort provided by your Leo, just as long as you let them know where your boundaries are. Leos can have a tendency toward self-absorption, which may leave you feeling out in the cold at times. However, if you speak up, a Lion will usually gladly reintegrate you into their adventures and aspirations.

The Lion isn't afraid to talk about the problems that come up in your relationship. In fact, their passion can often lead to fiery conversations. All the same, you can count on their warm heart and desire for peace to keep these encounters firmly grounded in loving feelings. The Leo's candidness will appeal to you in matters of the heart. You appreciate a partner who will work through your relationship's sore spots as a team. Together, you and your Leo should be able to take on any conflict that comes up.

In the bedroom, a Leo lover can really turn up the heat. The Lion has a robust sex drive and amazing amounts of passion. A Leo's charisma will kick into overdrive as they romance their way into a lover's heart. This ability to get your heart pumping will go a long way toward your ultimate infatuation with a Leo. The two of you appear to see eye-to-eye when it comes to sex.

Whether in their careers or as a hobby, Leos are the individuals who are often most drawn to the stage and performance. Perhaps this is because they're usually talented in at least one of the performing arts: drama, music, or dance. In this aspect of their life, too, the Lion loves to be in the spotlight and hear the applause of a crowd. You're the perfect audience for such endeavors. In fact, it will probably make you quite proud to see your Leo mate achieve their dreams — whether they perform at a small local café or Carnegie Hall.

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How to attract a Leo
If you are looking to meet a Leo, remember they are the charismatic ones who get the lion's share of the attention. Leos can be found at pretty much any social event, especially if there is an opportunity for them to show off. Try going to karaoke or open mike nights. Most Leos won't be able to resist getting up on stage, and that will make it a lot easier to spot them.

Once you've met and set your sights on a Leo, you can get them to notice you by:

  • Looking your best. A Leo wants to be with someone who will make them look even better.
  • Admiring them. The Lion lives for positive strokes.
  • Paying attention to them. Leos hate to be ignored for any reason. this Gemeni also appreciated attentiveness
  • Being affectionate. Make sure your Leo knows you care. this Gemeni agrees
  • Displaying confidence. It's their strongest aphrodisiac. this Gemeni agrees

But watch out — you can sabotage your efforts by:

  • Insisting on safety. Leos are risk takers and don't like to be inhibited.
  • Being frugal. It gives Leos pleasure to spend.
  • Desiring normalcy. Leos are extraordinary people and want to live that way.

Your future with Gemini the Twins (May 22 to June 21)

IME, the Gemini/Gemini mix is a volitile one UNLESS both are very aware of themselves, and BOTH know themselves very well!  And BOTH are willing to give and take and talk! Gemini is a great match for you — one of the best. The Twins' mix of social charms and deft intellectual insights is sure to pique your interest. Also, you appear to be more able than most to overlook a Gemini's sometimes-flighty nature and occasional lack of follow-through. Chances are you feel that in the grand scheme of things, such issues just aren't very important. As a result, finding true love with a Gemini is something that's quite possible for you.

You can usually spot potential Gemini partners by the knack they have for striking up witty and thoughtful conversations from the moment you're introduced. Social gatherings tend to be comfortable stomping grounds for unreserved Twins; such settings give them great opportunities to flirt. When you first meet a Gemini, don't be surprised if they don't stay with you long. It doesn't mean that they don't like you. Most Geminis are simply easily distracted. On the positive side, this can make them consummate social butterflies. Regardless, this trait will probably suit you just fine. You're apt to really enjoy being entertained by a Gemini's many-faceted interests and outgoing personality. If you stick with the Twins, you're apt to learn all sorts of fascinating tidbits about a wide variety of topics.

Geminis have the reputation for keeping a pretty quick pace and asking questions about almost everything. Mainly, they seek to gain a better understanding of the world around them. This inquisitive nature can make the Twins both curious and clever when interacting with the people and places that surround them. You're likely to appreciate this aspect of a Gemini. After all, they'll rarely, if ever, bore you with mundane conversation. You may also get to see the Twins' great negotiation skills; a Gemini can almost always see many sides to any issue.

Because they are always searching for multiple ways to look at the same problem, creativity often comes naturally to the inquisitive Gemini. In general, they have flexible minds that allow them to be open and uniquely capable of solving difficult problems. The Twins may apply this special knack to almost anything, from art to mathematics. You'll probably be invigorated by the Gemini's creative impulse and mesmerized by their ability to come up with original ideas with seemingly little effort.

It can be difficult to hold a Gemini to their plans or even to make plans in the first place. Oftentimes, these folks like to fly by the seat of their pants and see where the wind blows them. So if you have plans and something new and interesting comes along, they're apt to feel instinctively drawn in that direction. A Gemini can be adept at following their whims. This failure to commit to plans will probably cause you some grief. You seem to prefer a partner with better follow-through than a Gemini is typically capable of. Also, Geminis are the types of people to consistently surprise you with changes in their thinking. This mental flexibility may be refreshing for you at times. But more often than not, you'll feel somewhat unsettled by the Gemini state of flux.

In the bedroom, a Gemini lover will often harness both intellect and creativity to come up with original experiences for you. They're also the types to keep their ears open for new techniques. Sexually, the Twins are typically youthful and spirited, with a knack for inventiveness. It seems that as a couple, your sexual energies are well matched. You'll probably adore your Gemini lover for their energy and attentiveness.

Take Action

How to attract a Gemini
If you're looking to meet a Gemini, remember that they tend to be social, inquisitive people. Geminis can be found just about anywhere — and they're probably the ones who are doing most of the talking. Get out there and chat with friendly and talkative strangers. You'll likely come across a Gemini sooner rather than later.

Once you've met and set your sights on a Gemini, you can get them to notice you by:

  • Having interesting things to say. Geminis are drawn to information of all sorts. True... but I can live with your ability and willingness to look with me for interesting things!! Discovery Channel, Hostory Channel, Learning Channel, etc!!!
  • Flirting — the wittier the banter the better.
  • Being talkative. How is a Gemini supposed to know how interesting you are if you don't tell them?
  • Sharing your unique viewpoint on things. The Twins admire a well-developed opinion.
  • Listening well. They like to learn from you, but they also like to talk...a lot. However.... I've always thought that if I find someone I cam be comfortable in silence with, then I have found a keeper!

But watch out — you can sabotage your efforts by:

  • Leaving them alone. These social people don't do well in isolation. Disagree... I spend the majority of my time along by choice...
  • Boring them. Never let a Gemini lose interest. However... I don't need an entertainer... I entertain myself! I'm rarely ever actually bored!
  • Keeping them on a short leash. These mobile people need to feel that they have their freedom.

Your future with Virgo the Virgin (August 23 to September 23)

Virgo is a very good match for you. First and foremost, you're the kind of person who sincerely appreciates the Virgin's discriminating tastes. You can also put up with the Virgin's tendency to criticize others as a way to draw perfection from everyone around them. You probably understand that Virgos don't mean any harm in their feedback. They just want people to live up to the good that they see in them. Your admiration of these key qualities makes true love between you and a Virgo quite possible.

You can usually spot potential Virgo partners by their put-together looks and the particularity of their preferences. For example, when they're out on the town, most Virgos aren't content to go hang out at the local watering hole or mom-and-pop diner. They'd rather be in clean, well-appointed places with real décor. Virgos simply know what they like. So if you offer to buy a Virgo a drink, make sure you get their order right. They're certain to notice if you don't. This focus on perfection in regard to personal appearance and actions is something that probably seems quite foreign to you. It's also likely to make Virgos seem somewhat cold and distant as far as you're concerned.

The Virgin's perfectionism can have a very worthy goal, as Virgos are known to live for serving others. People of this sign are typically very practical. They also tend to have strong convictions about working toward the common good. Virgos' industrious, careful nature makes them the perfect people to entrust with jobs where efficiency is critical. You'll be impressed by Virgo's focus and the attention they place on their goals.

When it comes to money, Virgos are usually very good at conserving and building wealth. The Virgin makes judgments carefully, so financial decisions are generally well informed and low-risk. Virgos tend to err on the conservative side in most issues — with money as well as with life in general. Virgo's perspective on financial matters will probably be a breath of fresh air for you, as you seem to value saving more than spending. The two of you would be likely to have a bright financial future together, in part because your Virgo has carefully planned and prepared for it.

Because they think things through at length, Virgos tend to become skeptical realists prone to criticizing others. Their words aren't meant to be harsh. They're simply pointing out flaws that they've discovered. More often than not, Virgos assume that their negative feedback will simply be taken as helpful suggestions based on their educated opinions. You, for one, will usually have little trouble distancing yourself from a Virgo's critical words. In fact, you may grow to appreciate their habit of giving out what they see as helpful suggestions.

In the spirit of understanding all things, Virgos often love to explore the meanings and feelings behind their personal relationships. For instance, when a problem comes up, the Virgin can be very astute in understanding your perspective on it. Once they know your views, many Virgos will reassess their judgments and priorities until they feel comfortable with their final position on the issue that divides you. This kind of mutual understanding and attention to the relationship may well be appealing to you, especially if you don't mind the Virgo's practical approach.

In the bedroom, Virgo lovers tend to be somewhat shy. Usually, the Virgin would rather be thought of as nice than seductive. So Virgos will often keep a new love at bay, at least until a greater level of familiarity is achieved between you. Because of Virgo's high standards, they're not quick to get involved with anyone. You may find the Virgin a little slow-moving for your style. When it comes to creativity and sex drive, a Virgo probably can't equal you. For this reason, you may want to look elsewhere for a sexual match.

A Virgo partner will usually be very loyal to their marriage. However, people of this sign tend to marry to fulfill societal expectations rather than for passion. Virgos are known for being dutiful, conscientious mates and good companions, especially intellectually. You can take heart in the fact that your relationship with a Virgo is built on solid ground. If problems in your relationship do arise, your Virgo partner will almost always be right there to talk them through with you. The Virgo is definitely "marriage material," especially later in life. This may be just what you're looking for from your next partner.

Take Action

How to attract a Virgo
If you are looking to meet a Virgo, remember they are sticklers for detail and admire a tidy mate. Virgos can be found at pretty much any social event, blending right in. Because Virgos are intent on appearing proper and normal, it may be difficult to spot them. If you pay attention to details, though, they'll stand out as the best-groomed people in the room.

Once you've met and set your sights on a Virgo, get them to notice you by:

  • Looking neat and clean. Virgos really notice hygiene details.
  • Having good manners. Go get a copy of Emily Post's Etiquette now.
  • Being a good conversationalist. Show the Virgin you're the intelligent partner they are looking for. this Gemeni likes this too
  • Proving your reliability. Let your Virgo know they can depend on you. this Gemeni likes this too
  • Letting them "fix" you. Virgos love a partner who will change in small ways for them.

But watch out — you can sabotage your efforts by:

  • Telling dirty jokes. Virgos usually have a strong distaste for anything sordid.
  • Being sloppy. This is the kiss of death. Sorry, I'm sloppy.
  • Having an unhealthy lifestyle. Many Virgos worry excessively about death and failing health. Sorry, I smoke.

Your future with Taurus the Bull (April 21 to May 21)

Taurus is a good match for you, with a few minor complications. On the bright side, you seem to genuinely admire the Bull's unwavering dedication to their beliefs and values. However, you may have a hard time understanding a Taurus' sometimes annoying tendency to be critical of those who don't measure up to the Bull's lofty expectations. In weighing your Taurean's positive and negative qualities, you may still decide to push forward in a relationship. If so, feel confident that with some additional work, you can indeed make your romance a lasting and happy one.

You'll probably recognize potential Taurus partners by their ingratiating manners or by the way that they'll search for almost any opportunity to lavishly entertain you. The Bull loves to live a life of style and will often be drawn to social events where the focus is on pleasure and plenty. Your own love of the good life will put you in good stead with a Taurus mate. That's true whether the two of you are going out on the town or staying in for a romantic candlelit dinner. You're the type of person who seems well suited to exploring the subtle nuances of everyday pleasures along with your Taurus partner.

When a Taurus sets their mind to something, there is little that can budge them. It's no coincidence that the animal that symbolizes Taurean people is the stubborn bull. The upside to this character trait is that your Taurus will almost always be a loyal and faithful partner whose devotion rarely falters; Taureans are some of the least wishy-washy people in the zodiac. When a Taurus says they're going to do something, it's as good as done. You're the kind of individual who can genuinely appreciate this resolve and strength of will. In fact, a Taurean's ability to stick to a stated course of action can act as a great source of security for you.

Taurean stubbornness is nothing you can't handle, though. When the two of you disagree on something and the Bull starts to dig in its heels, you're one who can usually hold your own in the ensuing argument. Taureans don't mean to be difficult. In their minds, they're just staying the course and continuing along their merry way. So if plans need to change suddenly, a Taurus is likely to become upset. It takes the Bull a while to reset its course. It's sometimes difficult for Taureans to alter their expectations and actions to accommodate change. Sooner or later, though, most Taureans will let their temper pass and return to the gentle, kind, stable partner that you know them to be.

Taureans have a natural tendency to settle down into stable relationships. Because of this disposition, they value harmony and will ordinarily work hard to make their relationship work. Bulls also have a proclivity for indulging in pleasure and beauty, and that makes them bona fide romantics. They tend to be sentimental about love. In fact, the devotion they can show their mates sometimes verges on clingy. For you, a Taurus's level of romance is apt to feel over the top. Also, their centralized focus on your relationship may make you claustrophobic so that you begin actively looking for ways to spend time apart.

In the bedroom, a Taurus lover is apt to be conversely tender and explosive, expressive and creative. These individuals are enamored with beauty of all kinds and seek to make their sexual experiences rich with sensuality. You're likely to find this Taurean approach invigorating and exciting. You like a lover who has a healthy sex drive. As one who is comfortable with sexual expression, you'll probably feel right at home with the Bull's creativity in bed. Taureans tend to be aggressive lovers with an intense energy. Because you admire a passionate and dynamic personality between the sheets, you're apt to thank your lucky stars for your fiery Taurus lover.

In the rest of life, Taureans tend to live by a "work hard, play hard" credo. More than most, they enjoy living in abundance, surrounded by an excess of material goods and physical pleasures. This often includes an enjoyment of gourmet foods and fine luxury items. They don't really deny themselves much in this regard. You probably see this amount of excess either as wasteful or detrimental to the spirit or both. As a result, know that the two of you are likely to have trouble seeing eye-to-eye on matters of moderation.

Take Action

How to attract a Taurus
If you're looking to meet a Taurus, remember that they love to surround themselves with abundance. They can be found spending time in places of plenty — whether it's taking in the beauty of nature or dining in fine restaurants. Try organizing a singles dinner or hiking club where you encourage your friends to invite new people to the group each time. Sooner or later, a Taurus will be drawn to the fun — and hopefully to you.

Once you've met and set your sights on a Taurus, you can get them to notice you by:

  • Being affectionate. Subtly touch their arm when you speak to them, and hug them when you part. this Gemeni likes this too
  • Letting things flow. They like their partner to be flexible and easygoing. this Gemeni likes this too
  • Suggesting your favorite restaurant. Show them that you have good taste. or just that you have an opinion!
  • Noticing everyday beauty aloud. Comment on an amazing sunset or the way the wind blows the trees. this Gemeni likes this too
  • Treating them to a home-cooked meal — especially if you are a good cook.

But watch out — you can sabotage your efforts by:

  • Interrupting them. A Taurus wants to make sure their points are heard.
  • Rushing them. The Bull moves at a slow but steady pace.
  • Pushing them too hard. Respect the Taurean need to be stubborn sometimes.

Your future with Sagittarius the Archer (November 23 to December 21)

Sagittarius is among your better matches, with a few caveats. The Archer's free-spirited ways and pleasure-driven approach to life are right up your alley. However, Sagittarian indecisiveness isn't likely to be so appealing. You'd prefer a partner who can make up their mind. All the same, a Sagittarian's better qualities are likely to win you over in the end. With a little TLC, your relationship with a Sagittarius can indeed become true love.

You can keep an eye out for potential Sagittarius partners by noticing the people around you who speak quickly and stay on the move. Sagittarians are known for rushing optimistically forward in both the conversation and in life. People of this sign are often witty, sometimes flirtatious, and also prone to telling wild stories full of exaggeration. They love adventure, and their spirits generally run high. Your first impression of the Archer will likely be a favorable one, because they're so easy to talk with and interesting to listen to.

A Sagittarius' sense of adventure often leads to taking risks and exploring unknown territory. They feel compelled to increase their freedom and enjoyment almost constantly. The most favored way for the Archer to do this is in trekking into the wild blue yonder. Sagittarians are seldom fearful of what they may encounter. This bravery is due in large part to their optimism, as well as their firm belief that they are both lucky and smart. You're apt to find yourself in awe of this fearlessness, and you'll probably genuinely appreciate a Sagittarian's sense of adventure. Joining a Sagittarius in their ongoing travels would probably prove interesting and energizing for you.

Throughout their travels far and near, Sagittarians search to understand the big picture and the meaning of life. However, because their quest is much larger than any one person can expect to accomplish in a lifetime, an Archer is ultimately set up for a lifetime of wandering and learning. This eternal quest tends to make Sagittarians intelligent people. After all, they've been questioning all their lives, and most will continue to do so. This intellectual curiosity can really fascinate you. A Sagittarian's thoughtful consideration of weighty philosophical issues is just one more way that they're likely to draw you in. Know that the more time you spend around a Sagittarius, the more you're apt to find yourself with questions rather than hard and fast answers about the mysteries of life.

The Archer has a tendency toward restlessness. If things stay the same for too long, they'll often want to make a move to shake things up. Sometimes this tendency can invigorate a relationship, and other times it can harm it. This all depends how trapped a Sagittarian feels. People of this sign don't stay by your side simply because you have a committed relationship. They need to feel that they have the freedom to opt out of a relationship if it is no longer vital. This will almost certainly not be an acceptable arrangement for you. And if you feel that you can change this fact about a Sagittarian, think again.

By the same token, Sagittarians usually have mixed feelings about following the traditional relationship route to marriage and children. They can be ever questioning when it comes to established conventions and may feel apprehensive about making long-term commitments. This doesn't mean that a Sagittarius never gets married. They just come to it less easily and naturally than some of the other signs. You'll probably understand this kind of hesitance and respect the Archer's need to thoroughly consider things before moving your relationship to the next level. In fact, you may feel much the same way.

In the bedroom, a Sagittarius lover will usually keep your interest with their sexual knowledge and creativity. Oftentimes, the Archer has done their research when it comes to maximizing pleasure in the bedroom. Even if they haven't, they're usually quick to learn and have a good deal of energy. People of this sign generally listen well and will make you feel comfortable in sharing your desires. Overall, the Sagittarian approach is likely to be very encouraging to you. In fact, you're apt to find real happiness and satisfaction with a Sagittarian partner in this arena.

In many areas of life, Sagittarians' directness sometimes gets them into trouble. People of this sign tend to speak without thinking through the effect of their words. They can sometimes be quite blunt. The good news is that Sagittarians rarely mean any harm. Once they've spoken they're also the kind who are willing to hear the other side of an issue. So although a Sagittarian's bluntness can sometimes smart, you'll probably prefer it to not hearing what's on your partner's mind at all. Know that generally the Archer argues fairly, listens to your needs and opinions, and tells you how they really feel.

Take Action

How to attract a Sagittarius
If you are looking to meet a Sagittarius, remember they're adventurous wanderers who can be forever asking questions. The Archer can be found at pretty much any social event, but this sign isn't likely to have a regular hangout. The Sagittarius can often be found outdoors and will usually be the one who has more questions than answers.

Once you've met and set your sights on a Sagittarius, get them to notice you by:

  • Horsing around. Sagittarians love pleasure and playfulness.
  • Having a sense of adventure. Check your doubts at the door. this Gemeni likes this too & the cahunas to drag me along realizing that I want it, I just don't make much time for it!
  • Giving them space. A Sagittarius needs to have a sense of freedom in a relationship. this Gemeni likes this too
  • Being honest. The Archer's search for truth can be satisfied only in the company of honest people. this Gemeni likes this too
  • Offering friendship first. Be best friends before broaching any commitment topics. this Gemeni likes this too... First, foremost, and enduring.

But watch out — you can sabotage your efforts by:

  • Being too detail oriented. Sagittarians are purely big-picture people. Sorry, I'm very anal about details in my work!
  • Pressuring them for commitment. A Sagittarius will come to it in their own time, if at all. gotta have a committment...
  • Being hesitant. Backing down from adventure is a definite faux pas.

Your future with Cancer the Crab (June 22 to July 22)

Potential Cancerian partners can usually be identified by their caring natures. In fact, from the very first time you meet them, many Cancerians have a way of showing interest in you that makes it feel safe to share your deepest secrets with them. Cancers are also known for being masters of emotion. They have a knack for helping people with problems and concerns. They also wear their hearts on their sleeves more than most people. This fact can make them true romantics when it comes to relationships. However, you'll probably find the Crab's sentimental ways a bit over the top and sappy. In many regards, Cancerians are an open book, and this level of emotional display is likely to make you uncomfortable.

Above all, Cancerians are nurturing. As a result, many Cancers spend a great deal of their time and energy helping those around them grow to be the best they can be. This caring impulse can take on many forms, from cooking to teaching and offering advice. Because Cancers can be so compassionate and sympathetic, they'll ordinarily be there for you in good times and bad. When the Crab thinks a loved one is in danger, they can be a real force to reckon with. Cancerians' gentle manners yield quickly to become like the bared teeth of a lioness protecting her cubs. You're likely to appreciate these efforts to look after you. When your Cancer goes a little overboard — and often they will — you will simply grin and bear it, knowing that their heart is in the right place.

When it comes to finding a life partner, you'd be hard-pressed to find a more faithful mate than a Cancer. Family can be the most important thing to this sign, making them deeply committed to the growth and stability of family relationships. In general, the excitement of the new and unknown holds little interest for Cancerians when they compare it to the sense of peace and comfort they draw from their own family life. So when it comes to commitment, you and the Crab appear to speak the same language. You can feel secure knowing that your Cancer is dedicated to you and the love you share.

If a Cancerian gets into an emotional tizzy, it can be difficult for them to snap out of it. The Crab has a tendency to brood and become self-absorbed when they're processing deep emotions. It can be tough for you to watch your partner go through these tough times. However, you're strong enough to see them through these down cycles without letting yourself get too drawn into their emotions. Be aware that one emotion Cancerians tend to gravitate toward is jealousy. So even if a Cancer is able to steer clear of full-blown jealous fits, they're still likely to be possessive when they feel their relationship is being threatened. A small amount of possessiveness isn't likely to break your stride. You're the kind of person who understands that when someone is as fully invested in a relationship as a Cancer tends to be, a little possessiveness is completely natural.

In the bedroom, a Cancerian lover will initially be somewhat difficult to know. Just because they display their emotions openly doesn't mean that they can't be a bit sexually timid at times. However, once a Cancer gets comfortable, their romantic, passionate nature can shine. It seems that for many Cancerians, ideas about love come directly from fairy tales. This is one more reason that they often enjoy a long and romantic courtship. So if you can be patient with the Crab in the early stages of your relationship, you may find that the payoff is well worth your while. However, you may also find that their early coyness is something you can't tolerate. If this is the case, it's likely that you won't wait for them to catch up with you physically.

Because Cancerians tend to value their families first and foremost, they're often focused on creating a safe, comfortable abode to support and nourish their loved ones. More than many signs, Cancers are natural homebodies. As a result, many love to welcome people into their homes for informal gatherings or dinners. A Cancer's door is always open to friends and family, especially in times of need. Cancerians can also be enamored with tradition for its historical and community aspects. This sign seems happiest when married with children — the more children the better. Cancerian ideals may be too traditional for your tastes, especially if you have anything besides home and family as your top priority. Over time, you might become bored or boxed in by the caring Crab.

For a Cancer, part of caring for and nurturing their family includes managing finances. Cancerians are typically good with money, especially savings. They want to make sure that their loved ones are financially secure in times of emergency and are able to afford the education and opportunities that they may desire. This approach seems in line with your hopes for your financial future. As a result, you're apt to be in agreement with your Cancerian partner when it comes to money matters.

Take Action

How to attract a Cancer
If you're looking to meet a Cancer, a house party or dinner gathering may be your best bet. Remember that Cancers are often homebodies who love to cook. Socially, you are most likely to run into a Cancer at events where there is a strong sense of community. If you go to a dinner party, they're likely to be found helping — or being — the host in the kitchen.

Once you've met and set your sights on a Cancer, you can get them to notice you by:

  • Letting them fuss over you. They love to comfort people. this Gemeni likes this too
  • Fussing over them. Let them know that you care for them the same way they care for you. this Gemeni likes this too
  • Being financially responsible. Stories of your bad credit are an instant turn-off for them. I feel this way too... but it'sbecause I have a crappy financial histopry that I'm tryingto mend and improve.... can you learn me how? :o)
  • Expressing your emotions. You won't get far with a Cancer if you seem distant. this Gemeni likes this too
  • Sharing your love of cooking. Suggest that the two of you stay in and cook dinner together.

But watch out — you can sabotage your efforts by:

  • Putting them in stressful situations. Cancerians like the safety of quiet and routine. This Gemeni Agrees
  • Telling them what to do. They feel capable of knowing what's best for them and their family. suggest - yes, order - NO
  • Arguing with them. The Crab likes to avoid conflict and prefers less aggressive ways of working things out. This Gemeni Agrees

Your future with Libra the Scales (September 24 to October 23)

For the most part, you're well matched with a Libra. However, there are some sticky points. In favor of relationship success is the fact that you appear to be drawn to the Scales' fairness and focus on your relationship. A challenge comes in the form of Libra's sometimes-aggravating levels of lethargy. Trying to get them moving might really put your relationship to the test. However, in the end, a Libra's finer points have a good chance of outshining their faults. With a little extra effort, you can create a lasting love with a Libra.

You can usually recognize potential Libra partners in conversation. They're the people who'll listen closely to what you have to say and give you sound advice when you ask for it. The way a Libra talks with you will likely make you feel heard, understood, and comfortable. They always seem to know the right thing to say. In part, you're apt to enjoy a Libran's company due to their social graces. Libras tend to relate well with others and can be great communicators. These factors are likely to give them high marks in your book.

Libras will almost always take the time and put forth the energy to create and maintain an equitable relationship. A Libra appreciates a cooperative partner and demands that their mate be a clear communicator who is suitably invested in the relationship. A Libran's main objective is to balance their relationship and keep it peaceful. Part of their motivation for doing so is that they very much dislike conflict. Of the 12 signs, Libras are masters of compromise and are known for their fairness. They rarely try to manipulate a situation to their advantage. A typical Libran relationship style will feel comfortable to you, creating a solid foundation for your life together. Your partnership with a Libra will be built on mutual effort and compromise.

Partnerships are most Librans' primary goal. People of this sign like to do pretty much everything with a friend or partner. To Libras, two is almost always better than one, and they don't like to go it on their own. Because of this fact, Libras aren't terribly independent. They can simply get too lonely when they don't have company. Keeping your independence in a relationship is probably one of your lower priorities — at least in comparison to its partnership aspects. For this reason, you're likely to value your Libra mate for the quality of their company, despite their reticence to do things alone.

When Libras become bored, they risk slipping into a state of apathy or downright laziness. It's easy for a Libra to cling to a worn out routine until they feel an overwhelming lack of stimulation. The good news is that it's fairly easy to snap a Libra out of their haze by tempting them with new and pleasurable experiences that stretch them out of their comfort zone. You'll likely enjoy being around an energized Libra, but you'll tire of them quickly if they become stagnant. Remember that the more entertaining you can be, the more engaged your Libra partner will remain.

In the bedroom, a Libra lover will be inclined to focus on making the surroundings pleasing and romantic, using their creativity and good taste as a guide. A Libran's sexual appetite is significant, and they're generally alluring to those whom they set out to attract. Because of their sensual nature, you'll likely find most Libras to be fascinating and appealing as lovers. You're also apt to appreciate the stage they set for your sexual interludes.

Throughout their lives, Libras are drawn to beauty in all forms. This sign usually has a strong interest in the arts. So whether they actively create or simply appreciate art, Libras are definitely involved with the creative world in some way. Libras are active thinkers, communicators, and creators, especially in social or communal areas. A Libran's intellectual and creative capacities will likely both attract you to them and keep you interested, whether or not you end up in a romantic relationship.

Take Action

How to attract a Libra
If you're looking to meet a Libra, remember they're drawn to beauty and the arts. Libras can be found at social events that allow them to revel in beauty and pleasure, like the theater, opera, or ballet. Libras will be the ones making interesting and insightful observations about the happenings at any event.

Once you've met and set your sights on a Libra, you can get them to notice you by:

  • Being sophisticated. Libras are attracted to people who are informal yet classy. this Gemeni likes this too
  • Seducing them mentally. The surest way to a Libra's heart is through the mind. this Gemeni likes this too
  • Creating beauty. Libras can be as attracted to the creator as they are to the creation. this Gemeni likes this too
  • Stepping up to an argument. A small amount of conflict keeps things interesting for the Scales. this Gemeni does NOT like to argue, but DOES want to see you have a spine, opinions, and the courage to discuss them / work things out
  • Being romantic. Romanticism is a form of beauty that Libras admire. this Gemeni likes this too

But watch out — you can sabotage your efforts by:

  • Being inequitable. The Scales like to keep things fair and square. This Gemeni Agrees
  • Getting violent. Libras sometimes like a good argument, but keep your anger in check. This Gemeni Agrees
  • Being crude. Rough or uncivilized behavior turns a Libra off. This Gemeni Agrees

Your future with Pisces the Fishes (February 20 to March 20)

Generally speaking, Pisces is not a good match for you. The Fishes' gentle, easygoing ways are likely to strike you as passive and weak. You're also apt to be turned off by their sometimes timid nature and tendency to be bossed around. So unless you can find some other attractive quality about a peaceful Pisces, true love seems unlikely.

You can pick out potential Pisces partners by their genteel kindness when you're introduced and by the way they take a true interest in helping others. At parties, they'll probably be the ones helping the hosts pass out hors d'oeuvres, greet guests, or do after-party cleanup. Pisces like to be of service. Both compassionate and giving, you may also have luck finding them at charitable events or volunteering in their communities. The Fishes are typically easy to approach and emotionally open. They can also be quite sensitive. This quiet, loving nature will probably seem comforting and nurturing to you. As one who values openness and tact, Pisces will likely be a good match for you on this front.

Pisces is potentially the most easygoing sign in the zodiac. The Fishes usually just swim along, go with the flow, and avoid making waves. This can make them exceedingly easy to get along with — just as long as you don't mind them not having strong opinions. Unfortunately, because of this trait, you'll probably feel that there's something lacking in your relationship with a Pisces. At times when they show reticence to make firm decisions or take charge of a situation, you may find yourself wishing that they had a stronger personality.

Most Pisces are compassionate, empathic people who tend to absorb the emotions of those around them. Because of this fact, the Fishes will often try to avoid conflict to keep themselves from taking in others' bad vibes. Generally, harmony equals happiness for people of this sign. Another common Piscean trait is that they often put others' needs before their own. This is just another aspect of the Fishes helpful nature. However, at times working on others' behalf means that a Pisces gives up their own sense of inner peace for a while. When this happens, the Fishes may need to retreat into the waters for a period of renewal. Alone time can be very important for a Pisces's well-being. You'll likely understand and appreciate a Piscean's sensitivity, supporting them in their search for harmony and calm. This positive attitude toward a Pisces' emotional health will be duly noted. Your reward will be the thanks of an extremely loving and giving partner.

Many Pisces are well tuned in to the world's suffering, and it's far too easy for the Fishes to take these grand problems on themselves. Pisceans who become focused on the world's ills can develop unhealthy outlooks and a lack of hope for the future. At times when a Pisces slips into a downward cycle, they tend to become lethargic and gloomy. Know that the best way to stave off such melancholy and pessimism is to give your Pisces the time and space to regenerate their own personal sense of peace and abundance. All the same, these dark moods will likely be troubling for you. You might even worry that your Fishes could drift off into an irreversible negative state. Also, because they're probably not getting a lot accomplished in these blue periods, it may put stress on you and the relationship overall.

In the bedroom, a Pisces lover may be shy and withdrawn at first, expecting their lover to make the first move. More than any other sign, Pisceans are usually romantic, sensual people who value the emotional connection that can be attained through sexuality. Sex for its own sake isn't often high on a Pisces list of priorities. As in the rest of life, a Pisces seeks something deeper. If your Pisces takes a passive approach to sex, you're likely to find it frustrating and unsatisfying. You may value the emotional connection that a Pisces seeks, but your sex drive may simply be stronger than that of your Pisces mate.

Because Pisces often seek harmony and peace above all else, they'll tend to back down or change course when their ideas or decisions are challenged. Preferring to swim in schools with others rather than be singled out, the Fishes are also often exceedingly modest. Even when a Pisces is very talented at something, they are not the kind to show off. You won't usually find a Pisces competing to steal the spotlight from someone else. You'll probably find this desire to remain in the shadows aggravating and disappointing. However, no amount of your wishing your Pisces were more independent or showy will make it so.

Finally, Pisces are known to be the least argumentative sign in the zodiac. So if you're looking for a rousting good fight, it's time to look elsewhere. You seem to appreciate people who are willing to defend more than just the peace. You likely want someone who is willing to battle a bit in defense of their opinions. If you need conflict in your relationship to keep things fresh, you're apt to be quite disappointed by the Fishes.

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