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Now that you know which signs will make you happiest and offer you
the best opportunity to experience true love, it's time to get to know
more about each of your 12 potential matches. In this section, Emode
will detail the best — and the worst — of each astrological
sign in relation to your personality.
 Your
future with Capricorn the Goat (December 22 to January 20)
Capricorn is one of your very best matches. The Goat possesses both
ambition and the kind of strong work ethic that you seem to especially
admire. You're also one who's usually able to look past a Capricorn's
habit of being unforgiving of those who aren't as diligent as they are.
These factors can make the two of you a perfect pairing.
You can usually hone in on potential Capricorn partners by looking
for people who exude self-confidence and talk a lot about their work.
Often these down-to-earth people prefer to roll up their sleeves and
get down to business over anything else. This preference is often reflected
in their choice of conversation topics at social functions. Capricorns
are generally polite and somewhat reserved people who appear traditional
or dignified in their carriage. Overall, you'll probably be attracted
to the confidence a Capricorn can exude. However, you'll probably also
wish that they were more geared toward pleasure and entertainment.
Capricorns are known for being goal oriented and dedicated. In fact,
many people of this sign fully expect to be at the top of their chosen
fields in due time. Diligent, productive, and organized, Capricorns
keep a conservative posture in most aspects of their lives. More than
most of the other signs, the Goat follows the center path of moderation
and doesn't make waves. They seem to feel that the surest way to the
top is through steady effort and playing it safe. You can admire a Capricorn's
focus on the future and dedication to the things they believe in. This
steadiness in their direction may even provide you with some much-desired
security.
Ultimately, a Capricorn's hope is to reap the rewards of their hard
labor once they've reached the top. Many Capricorns have their eyes
on accumulating wealth and becoming well known for what they do. You'll
probably question the value of such goals, especially if it means that
your Capricorn's career eclipses the importance of your relationship,
even if only for short periods of time.
In addition to being diligent in their chosen profession, Capricorns
are often very skilled in manners of money and management. They tend
to be conservative by nature and act with caution, preferring to save
or invest rather than spend. In this regard, you are well matched with
the Goat. As long as you both honor your mutual financial goals and
commitments, you should have little to argue about when it comes to
money.
The Goat can be a little egotistical at times. Many carry themselves
through life with a sense of entitlement. Put another way, many Capricorns
feel that they've worked long and hard to get where they are —
and they're going to let you know they're proud of it. So if the Goat
crosses paths with someone who seems to be standing in their way or
refusing to pitch in, they can become cross and unforgiving. But you
probably won't let a Capricorn's bearing rattle you. You may even understand
where they're coming from. And even if you don't, their gruff exterior
isn't likely to frighten you. Still, know that most of the time Capricorns
are patient, steady, and calm in the pursuit of their dreams.
By trying to be the best and reach the top, many Capricorns develop
the kind of confidence that can make them potent authority figures.
In your own life, you may come to trust your Capricorn's no-nonsense
advice and treasure their self-assured opinions. Because a Capricorn
almost always seems to know what's right, it is easy to become one of
their followers.
In the bedroom, a Capricorn lover will be initially cool, becoming
more passionate the more you get to know them. Above all, Capricorns
are practical people who do not enter into relationships lightly. As
a result, don't be surprised if the sexual component of your relationship
appears only after you've built a strong companionship. Once your relationship
does reach a sexual level, you'll probably find that your Capricorn
has quite a lusty sex drive. So in a relationship's early stages, you're
likely to be a bit frustrated by a Capricorn. But be patient. Whatever
develops between the two of you may be well worth the wait.
When Capricorns make up their minds, they generally stick to their
master plans with very little variance. So if you want to divert a Capricorn
from their personal agenda, be ready for some work. Persuading a Goat
to go a different way can indeed be challenging. And probably that's
all right with you. Especially because most times you'll respect your
Capricorn's high level of resolve and give them plenty of room to take
care of business as they see fit.
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 Your
future with Aquarius the Water Bearer (January 21 to February
19)
Aquarius is a very fine match for you. The Water Bearer's idealism
and passion for creating positive social change is a good fit with your
own personality. You also seem to be able to tolerate Aquarians' impatience
with those who don't share their beliefs. Because of the idealistic
bent you share, a lasting romance can surely blossom between you and
an Aquarius.
You can often spot potential Aquarius partners by either the sociable
air about them or the way they involve themselves in causes. The Water
Bearer's talkative nature will likely attract you, especially if you're
interested in the issues that they believe in. People of this sign will
usually be easy to approach because they love to get others involved
with social action or in their community. All you have to do is ask
them how you can help. They're apt to quickly take you up on your offer.
From there, your relationship can develop along its natural course.
An Aquarian's primary concern is to make the world a better place.
You don't need to share the same level of passion about issues in order
for your relationship to work. However, you do need to make certain
that the two of you aren't working for opposing forces. Most Aquarians
find it hard to be involved with someone whom they disagree with wholeheartedly
about political or social agendas. The Water Bearer's passion and hope
for the future will likely inspire you a good deal. You're apt to be
proud of their efforts and thankful that they have something they believe
in so strongly.
Aquarians are known for being intelligent, creative people who are
skilled at solving disputes. Their social focus can also make them excellent
negotiators, leaders, and communicators, particularly when fueled by
the passion of a just cause. An Aquarius normally won't take up causes
lightly; most are well informed and work to stay that way. At times,
their strong beliefs may push them to research problems rather deeply
to come up with new and innovative ideas for change. You'll probably
find this kind of in-depth knowledge really attractive. You seem to
appreciate the kind of people who can turn their personal passions into
action.
When opposed by pessimistic critics, Aquarians can transform from
easygoing activists into temperamental defenders of their causes. Know
that people of this sign can be often be set in their ways. They're
also quite headstrong when their beliefs are challenged. At times when
the two of you disagree, you'll probably understand an Aquarian's irritation
isn't a personal attack. They simply possess a different view than you
do. Your ability to separate yourselves from the opinions you hold leaves
you both in a good position to discuss issues rationally, without feeling
very angry or hurt.
One admirable trait that most Aquarians embody is that when they see
trouble on the horizon, their response tends to be an optimistic one.
So if there's a silver lining to any situation, the Water Bearer will
find it. This positivity helps an Aquarius buffer the occasional setbacks
or failures they experience. By believing that things will get better,
they muster the will to keep pushing ahead in their own life. For the
most part, you'll really love an Aquarian's persistent sense of optimism.
You may even learn a little bit from them about the power of positive
thinking.
In the bedroom, an Aquarius lover will tend to be discrete and cautious
at first. Most times they want to be certain that all areas of your
relationship are strong before plunging into its sexual aspects. However,
once your relationship does become sexual, you're likely to find the
Water Bearer both playful and warm-hearted. However, many Aquarians
have a sex drive that may remain quite low throughout your relationship.
The Water Bearer is the opposite of fiery and jealous. They are simply
devoted, sincere partners. You may find a relationship with an Aquarius
somewhat slow moving or asexual. On the bright side, your emotional
needs are likely to be more than satisfied.
Aquarians are altruistic people who can be determined to make a difference
for others. As such, they often feel a responsibility to complete their
"missions." Because they see themselves as working for the
common good, people of this sign sometimes feel a bit righteous in their
actions. They don't take well to having their best-laid plans criticized,
nor do they readily tolerate being told what to do. You're apt to respect
this quality in an Aquarius. You admire their strength and resolve when
criticized or given orders contrary to their wishes.
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 Your
future with Aries the Ram (March 21 to April 20)
You're well matched with an Aries. In fact, this is one of your best
matches. You're the type of person who can truly appreciate the Ram's
enthusiasm for life and excitement about the future. You also seem to
be more able than most to put up with an Aries's need to push their
viewpoint on all who will listen. To you, an Arian's finer points will
typically well outweigh their faults. Because of this fact, you can
indeed create a lasting romance with an Aries mate.
You'll recognize potential Aries partners by their easy smiles or
by the way casually wink at you when you're introduced at a party. Social
gatherings are comfortable stomping grounds for gregarious Rams —
and they're not above flirting to get your attention. Chances are that
you'll respond well to an Aries's playful advances and enjoy their chatty,
engaging company. But watch out — if you reciprocate, flirt with
your Aries only. If they see you making eyes at someone else, you're
sure to lose points with them.
On the whole, Arians are bold, aggressive, and ready to take on the
world. Their inner strength and courage give them the stamina required
to compete and win. As a result of these traits, the Ram is well prepared
to argue their side of any debate. For you, this outspokenness is likely
to be a refreshing change from those who believe that expressing passionate
opinions is impolite. If you've somehow pushed an Aries's buttons, they'll
usually hang in there until the situation between you is resolved. This
tenacity is admirable, but it also makes them difficult to disagree
with. Arians are famous for making sure that they have the last word
in most any argument.
An Aries is the perfect partner to satisfy your desire for a mate
who isn't afraid to let their dominant side shine. In fact, you're likely
to find great comfort and safety in an Aries's ability to firmly and
strongly take the lead. It's okay to feel this way — and to embrace
it even — just as long as you know where your boundaries are.
Otherwise your wants and needs may take a backseat to those of your
Aries partner. Arians don't mean to steamroller those they love. However,
at times they can become swept up in their own purpose and forget to
be considerate to those around them. By being direct and straightforward
with your Aries, they can learn to respect and better understand your
limits.
People born under the sign of Aries can be visionary leaders. They
often excel at getting new things off the ground and are typically skilled
at rallying support for their causes. The Ram's personal magnetism and
energy make them a pleasure to follow on their valiant journey into
the unknown. And that's often exactly where they're headed; Aries individuals
can be fascinated by the new and unfamiliar. However, once the new is
known, an Arian is likely to get restless and look further into the
future for new adventures. Because of this constant push for change,
Arians aren't known for their follow-through.
Because the Ram has such a keen interest in the future, the two of
you will see eye-to-eye on many matters. Personally, you'll probably
find their optimism admirable as your Aries pushes onward toward new
goals of their own and in your relationship. You'll likely be quite
proud of them for dedicating their gallant efforts to the things you
both believe in. You want a partner who knows what they want and has
the drive to get it; an Aries is a perfect match for you in this way.
Aries people tend to get very involved in their projects. As a result,
you may find that your relationship suffers from lack of attention from
time to time, particularly if you're counting on an avid courtship.
This fact is apt to be troubling and worrisome to you. However, you
would do well to turn your attention to other things at times when your
Arian is focused elsewhere. When an Aries gets consumed by something,
it can be very difficult to pull them away. If you begin to feel neglected
as a result of your Ram's other endeavors, confront them about your
specific concerns and ask for more attention. If you state your case
plainly, the two of you will most likely be able to come to a compromise
that makes you both happier.
The Ram's focus and strength sometimes leads to bluntness and a sharp
tongue, but you're someone who can usually handle those things like
a champ. If you don't let your Aries push you around, you'll be just
fine. It's important to understand that Arians usually have distinct
ideas about the way things should be, and they aren't shy about letting
people in on their views. Pleasantries are lost on an Aries when they're
serious about discussing something. In a Ram's eyes, candor and directness
are always virtues.
In the bedroom, an Arian lover is apt to show enthusiasm and desire
for the physicality of sex. They are known for being connoisseurs of
pleasure and enjoy beauty in all of its forms. Arians can be very generous
lovers, displaying an eagerness and sense of delight that is easy to
get swept away by. However, when it comes to romance, most Aries aren't
much for mushy love stuff. That's probably just fine with you, as sappy
sentimentality isn't something either of you appear to revel in. Also,
at times when things get heated between you and your Aries, you my need
to ask this ardent lover to slow down — that is, unless you're
just as raring to go as they are.
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How
to attract an Aries
If you're looking to meet an Aries, remember
they are social, energetic people. As a result, they can often be
found at a variety of social events, playing sports, or working for
the causes they believe in. You may want to try getting involved
in a local volunteer group or joining an amateur athletic team.
Once you've met and set your sights on an Aries,
you can get them to notice you by:
- Exhibiting independence. Show them that you
can think for yourself.
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efforts by:
- Making them wait. Arians have a lot going
on and don't like to waste time.
- Giving them unsolicited advice. They're pretty
sure they know what's right on their own.
- Letting them beat you too easily in competition.
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 Your
future with Scorpio the Scorpion (October 24 to November 22)
A Scorpio is a great match for you. For one thing, you seem to really
connect with the Scorpion's intensity and depth of feeling and to admire
them for these qualities. You're also the kind who can be understanding
about a Scorpio's tendency to overreact to things they perceive to be
threats. After all, you're not going to let an occasional over-the-top
moment put a damper on your chances for romance. In fact, if you play
your cards right, you and a Scorpio may find true love.
You can pick out potential Scorpio partners by their self-confident
carriage when they walk into a room and by their intense gazes. Unlike
people who may be more timid or remote, most Scorpios aren't afraid
of a little eye contact. At times, the Scorpion's stare can make it
seem as if they can see into your very soul. More often than not, they
are supremely assured and determined. If they take a fancy to you, you
can bet you'll be persistently and aggressively pursued. Scorpios are
known for being unfamiliar with the concept of quitting. If a Scorpio's
head turns in your direction, you'll probably be flattered by their
heated pursuit. You can appreciate someone with that kind of confidence
and command. It's also nice not to have to play hard to get, because
the Scorpion isn't all about the chase.
When a Scorpio decides what they want, they can be intent on getting
it. In fact, if the Scorpion feels an objective is in danger of being
derailed, they can lash out quickly and strongly in an effort to protect
it. Scorpios are known for being exceedingly resourceful. So although
they may not win the battle, this sign has every intention of winning
the war. Strong and intent on their ideals, a Scorpio has a unique ability
to focus on their purpose and see it through. You'll usually admire
a Scorpio's convictions and support their ambitions. For you, it's probably
a relief to find someone who knows what they want.
When Scorpios want to know something, they don't mince words when
collecting facts. They go straight to the essential questions. In this
way, their sign has earned a real reputation for directness and for
their skill extracting information from others. In their role as questioner,
Scorpios can have an almost authoritarian way about them. Listening
to a Scorpio voice their inquiries, you might assume that they were
in a position of power. In fact, sometimes they are. You're likely to
find yourself strangely attracted to this aura. As a result, a Scorpio
might be able to draw out your deepest secrets without much trouble.
Perhaps you'll find this kind of sharing liberating, but be careful
how much personal information you give away. At times, the Scorpion
has been known to be vindictive. You don't want your openness to come
back to sting you.
Scorpios have a highly developed sense of intuition, but it's sometimes
a little overactive. As a result, Scorpios can get a little paranoid.
If they feel that you've treated them unjustly — whether or not
this feeling is based on fact — a Scorpio can become jealous,
vindictive, and spiteful. Compared to most people, it's relatively easy
for you to roll with a Scorpio's emotional outbursts. You may see their
antics as a cry for help, which, more often than not, is true. Even
when their extreme reactions are difficult to manage, under it all,
Scorpios mostly want their emotions to be soothed and brought back into
balance. You're well suited to handle the Scorpion's extremes, even
when they become angry. Somehow, for you a Scorpio's positive qualities
will usually make up for the emotional fires you'll need to put out
in your relationship.
Although the Scorpion can have highly fluctuating emotions, people
of this sign usually try to keep their inner feelings under wraps —
at least to strangers and acquaintances. So until you get to know a
Scorpio better, you'll probably think that they're pretty level characters.
You might even find them a tad secretive. This closed-off nature may
disturb you some. However, as you gain a Scorpio's trust over time,
know that they're likely to become more candid. In fact, you may discover
that becoming privy to a Scorpio partner's emotional intensity and depth
is well worth the wait.
In the bedroom, a Scorpio lover will often be lusty and passionate
in the extreme. How could these highly emotional and powerful people
be any different? Scorpios are also known for being devoted and caring
when it comes to their romantic partners. People of this sign like to
give their all, and sex is no exception. You will likely be intoxicated
by the energetic Scorpion. Their high libido is likely to keep you fired
up night after night.
The Scorpio's intensity can lead to fiery discussions and heated arguments.
Remember that the Scorpion is both insightful and cunning. This gives
them an edge should they decide to employ manipulation during debate
— a tactic not uncommon among Scorpios. At times when a Scorpio
has an issue with you, they'll almost certainly let you know about it.
But these facts won't keep you from getting along with a Scorpio. You
don't seem like one who's afraid of confrontation. By wanting to know
where your partner stands, even when they're somewhat outspoken, you
make yourself a good Scorpio match.
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 Your
future with Leo the Lion (July 23 to August 22)
You are very well matched with a Leo. This is due, in part, to the
Lion's animal magnetism and pridefulness. You seem to really appreciate
the charismatic way most Leos have about them. You're also more willing
than most to tolerate a Leo's tendency to be self-centered or egotistical.
You probably feel that it's more important to have a mate with personal
presence than it is to be with someone particularly humble. Because
of these preferences, when romantic sparks fly between you and a Leo,
true love may indeed be the result.
You'll recognize potential Leo partners by the way they can capture
everyone's attention when they enter a room. The Lion loves to strut
at social events and will often be the center of attention. To that
end, Leos are typically outgoing, self-assured, and flamboyant. Romantically,
it's not uncommon for Leos to have admirers lined up around the block
vying for their charismatic company. You're likely among this crowd.
After all, personal charm is one of the things that most attracts you.
More often than not, Leos are loyal partners and are not the cheating
type. On the contrary, they tend to romanticize their relationships
and don't allow for much flexibility when it comes to honor. You're
apt to find great peace in the knowledge that your love is secure with
your Leo. When issues do arise in your relationship, you can trust the
Lion to come to you first.
Pleasure can be an enormous draw for Leos. They love to have a good
time, and they want you to enjoy life, too. One way they help to ensure
this is by being generous. They'll relish seeing the joy you get from
any gift that they bestow upon you. You're the kind who will truly appreciate
these small declarations of a Leo's affection. When receiving a gift,
you're apt to both graciously accept it and give your Lion the strokes
they need to feel valued. The tokens Leos give can get quite pricey,
in part because most Leos love to spend money. This habit will likely
seem too excessive for your tastes. You're more apt to appreciate a
mate who sets sensible limits.
Another one of the Leo's hallmark traits is that they are natural
leaders. As such, these individuals often possess both great courage
and a high tolerance for risk. The Lion often charges forward fearlessly
into new endeavors, letting things sort out as they will. You're one
partner who'll probably be happy to join them in such ambitious pursuits.
A little risk isn't likely to scare you away. But regardless of whether
you're up for joining them, Leos will usually forge ahead. They can't
help it. It's in their nature.
No matter what the situation, a Leo partner isn't the type who's afraid
to show their dominant side. This might be just fine with you, as it
can be fun for you to let someone else take the lead. Go ahead and embrace
the comfort provided by your Leo, just as long as you let them know
where your boundaries are. Leos can have a tendency toward self-absorption,
which may leave you feeling out in the cold at times. However, if you
speak up, a Lion will usually gladly reintegrate you into their adventures
and aspirations.
The Lion isn't afraid to talk about the problems that come up in your
relationship. In fact, their passion can often lead to fiery conversations.
All the same, you can count on their warm heart and desire for peace
to keep these encounters firmly grounded in loving feelings. The Leo's
candidness will appeal to you in matters of the heart. You appreciate
a partner who will work through your relationship's sore spots as a
team. Together, you and your Leo should be able to take on any conflict
that comes up.
In the bedroom, a Leo lover can really turn up the heat. The Lion
has a robust sex drive and amazing amounts of passion. A Leo's charisma
will kick into overdrive as they romance their way into a lover's heart.
This ability to get your heart pumping will go a long way toward your
ultimate infatuation with a Leo. The two of you appear to see eye-to-eye
when it comes to sex.
Whether in their careers or as a hobby, Leos are the individuals who
are often most drawn to the stage and performance. Perhaps this is because
they're usually talented in at least one of the performing arts: drama,
music, or dance. In this aspect of their life, too, the Lion loves to
be in the spotlight and hear the applause of a crowd. You're the perfect
audience for such endeavors. In fact, it will probably make you quite
proud to see your Leo mate achieve their dreams — whether they
perform at a small local café or Carnegie Hall.
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 Your
future with Gemini the Twins (May 22 to June 21)
IME, the Gemini/Gemini mix is a volitile
one UNLESS both are very aware of themselves, and BOTH know themselves
very well! And BOTH are willing to give and take and talk!
Gemini is a great match for you — one of the best. The Twins'
mix of social charms and deft intellectual insights is sure to pique
your interest. Also, you appear to be more able than most to overlook
a Gemini's sometimes-flighty nature and occasional lack of follow-through.
Chances are you feel that in the grand scheme of things, such issues
just aren't very important. As a result, finding true love with a Gemini
is something that's quite possible for you.
You can usually spot potential Gemini partners by the knack they have
for striking up witty and thoughtful conversations from the moment you're
introduced. Social gatherings tend to be comfortable stomping grounds
for unreserved Twins; such settings give them great opportunities to
flirt. When you first meet a Gemini, don't be surprised if they don't
stay with you long. It doesn't mean that they don't like you. Most Geminis
are simply easily distracted. On the positive side, this can make them
consummate social butterflies. Regardless, this trait will probably
suit you just fine. You're apt to really enjoy being entertained by
a Gemini's many-faceted interests and outgoing personality. If you stick
with the Twins, you're apt to learn all sorts of fascinating tidbits
about a wide variety of topics.
Geminis have the reputation for keeping a pretty quick pace and asking
questions about almost everything. Mainly, they seek to gain a better
understanding of the world around them. This inquisitive nature can
make the Twins both curious and clever when interacting with the people
and places that surround them. You're likely to appreciate this aspect
of a Gemini. After all, they'll rarely, if ever, bore you with mundane
conversation. You may also get to see the Twins' great negotiation skills;
a Gemini can almost always see many sides to any issue.
Because they are always searching for multiple ways to look at the
same problem, creativity often comes naturally to the inquisitive Gemini.
In general, they have flexible minds that allow them to be open and
uniquely capable of solving difficult problems. The Twins may apply
this special knack to almost anything, from art to mathematics. You'll
probably be invigorated by the Gemini's creative impulse and mesmerized
by their ability to come up with original ideas with seemingly little
effort.
It can be difficult to hold a Gemini to their plans or even to make
plans in the first place. Oftentimes, these folks like to fly by the
seat of their pants and see where the wind blows them. So if you have
plans and something new and interesting comes along, they're apt to
feel instinctively drawn in that direction. A Gemini can be adept at
following their whims. This failure to commit to plans will probably
cause you some grief. You seem to prefer a partner with better follow-through
than a Gemini is typically capable of. Also, Geminis are the types of
people to consistently surprise you with changes in their thinking.
This mental flexibility may be refreshing for you at times. But more
often than not, you'll feel somewhat unsettled by the Gemini state of
flux.
In the bedroom, a Gemini lover will often harness both intellect and
creativity to come up with original experiences for you. They're also
the types to keep their ears open for new techniques. Sexually, the
Twins are typically youthful and spirited, with a knack for inventiveness.
It seems that as a couple, your sexual energies are well matched. You'll
probably adore your Gemini lover for their energy and attentiveness.
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How to attract a Gemini
If you're looking to meet a Gemini, remember that they tend to be
social, inquisitive people. Geminis can be found just about anywhere
— and they're probably the ones who are doing most of the talking.
Get out there and chat with friendly and talkative strangers. You'll
likely come across a Gemini sooner rather than later.
Once you've met and set your sights on a Gemini, you can get them
to notice you by:
- Having interesting things to say. Geminis are drawn to information
of all sorts. True... but I can live with
your ability and willingness to look with me for
interesting things!! Discovery Channel, Hostory Channel, Learning
Channel, etc!!!
- Flirting — the wittier the banter the better.
 
- Being talkative. How is a Gemini supposed to know how interesting
you are if you don't tell them?
- Sharing your unique viewpoint on things. The Twins admire a well-developed
opinion.

- Listening well. They like to learn from you, but they also like
to talk...a lot. However.... I've always
thought that if I find someone I cam be comfortable in silence with,
then I have found a keeper!
But watch out — you can sabotage your efforts by:
- Leaving them alone. These social people don't do well in isolation.
Disagree... I spend the majority of my
time along by choice...
- Boring them. Never let a Gemini lose interest. However...
I don't need an entertainer... I entertain myself! I'm rarely ever
actually bored!
- Keeping them on a short leash. These mobile people need to feel
that they have their freedom.
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 Your
future with Virgo the Virgin (August 23 to September 23)
Virgo is a very good match for you. First and foremost, you're the
kind of person who sincerely appreciates the Virgin's discriminating
tastes. You can also put up with the Virgin's tendency to criticize
others as a way to draw perfection from everyone around them. You probably
understand that Virgos don't mean any harm in their feedback. They just
want people to live up to the good that they see in them. Your admiration
of these key qualities makes true love between you and a Virgo quite
possible.
You can usually spot potential Virgo partners by their put-together
looks and the particularity of their preferences. For example, when
they're out on the town, most Virgos aren't content to go hang out at
the local watering hole or mom-and-pop diner. They'd rather be in clean,
well-appointed places with real décor. Virgos simply know what
they like. So if you offer to buy a Virgo a drink, make sure you get
their order right. They're certain to notice if you don't. This focus
on perfection in regard to personal appearance and actions is something
that probably seems quite foreign to you. It's also likely to make Virgos
seem somewhat cold and distant as far as you're concerned.
The Virgin's perfectionism can have a very worthy goal, as Virgos
are known to live for serving others. People of this sign are typically
very practical. They also tend to have strong convictions about working
toward the common good. Virgos' industrious, careful nature makes them
the perfect people to entrust with jobs where efficiency is critical.
You'll be impressed by Virgo's focus and the attention they place on
their goals.
When it comes to money, Virgos are usually very good at conserving
and building wealth. The Virgin makes judgments carefully, so financial
decisions are generally well informed and low-risk. Virgos tend to err
on the conservative side in most issues — with money as well as
with life in general. Virgo's perspective on financial matters will
probably be a breath of fresh air for you, as you seem to value saving
more than spending. The two of you would be likely to have a bright
financial future together, in part because your Virgo has carefully
planned and prepared for it.
Because they think things through at length, Virgos tend to become
skeptical realists prone to criticizing others. Their words aren't meant
to be harsh. They're simply pointing out flaws that they've discovered.
More often than not, Virgos assume that their negative feedback will
simply be taken as helpful suggestions based on their educated opinions.
You, for one, will usually have little trouble distancing yourself from
a Virgo's critical words. In fact, you may grow to appreciate their
habit of giving out what they see as helpful suggestions.
In the spirit of understanding all things, Virgos often love to explore
the meanings and feelings behind their personal relationships. For instance,
when a problem comes up, the Virgin can be very astute in understanding
your perspective on it. Once they know your views, many Virgos will
reassess their judgments and priorities until they feel comfortable
with their final position on the issue that divides you. This kind of
mutual understanding and attention to the relationship may well be appealing
to you, especially if you don't mind the Virgo's practical approach.
In the bedroom, Virgo lovers tend to be somewhat shy. Usually, the
Virgin would rather be thought of as nice than seductive. So Virgos
will often keep a new love at bay, at least until a greater level of
familiarity is achieved between you. Because of Virgo's high standards,
they're not quick to get involved with anyone. You may find the Virgin
a little slow-moving for your style. When it comes to creativity and
sex drive, a Virgo probably can't equal you. For this reason, you may
want to look elsewhere for a sexual match.
A Virgo partner will usually be very loyal to their marriage. However,
people of this sign tend to marry to fulfill societal expectations rather
than for passion. Virgos are known for being dutiful, conscientious
mates and good companions, especially intellectually. You can take heart
in the fact that your relationship with a Virgo is built on solid ground.
If problems in your relationship do arise, your Virgo partner will almost
always be right there to talk them through with you. The Virgo is definitely
"marriage material," especially later in life. This may be
just what you're looking for from your next partner.
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How
to attract a Virgo 
If you are looking to meet a Virgo, remember
they are sticklers for detail and admire a tidy mate. Virgos can
be found at pretty much any social event, blending right in. Because
Virgos are intent on appearing proper and normal, it may be difficult
to spot them. If you pay attention to details, though, they'll stand
out as the best-groomed people in the room.
Once you've met and set your sights on a Virgo,
get them to notice you by:
- Looking neat and clean. Virgos really notice
hygiene details.
- Having good manners. Go get a copy of Emily
Post's Etiquette now.
- Being a good conversationalist. Show the Virgin
you're the intelligent partner they are looking for.
this
Gemeni likes this too
- Proving your reliability. Let your Virgo know
they can depend on you.
this
Gemeni likes this too
- Letting them "fix" you. Virgos love
a partner who will change in small ways for them.

But watch out — you can sabotage your
efforts by:
- Telling dirty jokes. Virgos usually have a
strong distaste for anything sordid.
- Being sloppy. This is the kiss of death. Sorry,
I'm sloppy.
- Having an unhealthy lifestyle. Many Virgos
worry excessively about death and failing health. Sorry,
I smoke.
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 Your
future with Taurus the Bull (April 21 to May 21)
Taurus is a good match for you, with a few minor complications. On
the bright side, you seem to genuinely admire the Bull's unwavering
dedication to their beliefs and values. However, you may have a hard
time understanding a Taurus' sometimes annoying tendency to be critical
of those who don't measure up to the Bull's lofty expectations. In weighing
your Taurean's positive and negative qualities, you may still decide
to push forward in a relationship. If so, feel confident that with some
additional work, you can indeed make your romance a lasting and happy
one.
You'll probably recognize potential Taurus partners by their ingratiating
manners or by the way that they'll search for almost any opportunity
to lavishly entertain you. The Bull loves to live a life of style and
will often be drawn to social events where the focus is on pleasure
and plenty. Your own love of the good life will put you in good stead
with a Taurus mate. That's true whether the two of you are going out
on the town or staying in for a romantic candlelit dinner. You're the
type of person who seems well suited to exploring the subtle nuances
of everyday pleasures along with your Taurus partner.
When a Taurus sets their mind to something, there is little that can
budge them. It's no coincidence that the animal that symbolizes Taurean
people is the stubborn bull. The upside to this character trait is that
your Taurus will almost always be a loyal and faithful partner whose
devotion rarely falters; Taureans are some of the least wishy-washy
people in the zodiac. When a Taurus says they're going to do something,
it's as good as done. You're the kind of individual who can genuinely
appreciate this resolve and strength of will. In fact, a Taurean's ability
to stick to a stated course of action can act as a great source of security
for you.
Taurean stubbornness is nothing you can't handle, though. When the
two of you disagree on something and the Bull starts to dig in its heels,
you're one who can usually hold your own in the ensuing argument. Taureans
don't mean to be difficult. In their minds, they're just staying the
course and continuing along their merry way. So if plans need to change
suddenly, a Taurus is likely to become upset. It takes the Bull a while
to reset its course. It's sometimes difficult for Taureans to alter
their expectations and actions to accommodate change. Sooner or later,
though, most Taureans will let their temper pass and return to the gentle,
kind, stable partner that you know them to be.
Taureans have a natural tendency to settle down into stable relationships.
Because of this disposition, they value harmony and will ordinarily
work hard to make their relationship work. Bulls also have a proclivity
for indulging in pleasure and beauty, and that makes them bona fide
romantics. They tend to be sentimental about love. In fact, the devotion
they can show their mates sometimes verges on clingy. For you, a Taurus's
level of romance is apt to feel over the top. Also, their centralized
focus on your relationship may make you claustrophobic so that you begin
actively looking for ways to spend time apart.
In the bedroom, a Taurus lover is apt to be conversely tender and
explosive, expressive and creative. These individuals are enamored with
beauty of all kinds and seek to make their sexual experiences rich with
sensuality. You're likely to find this Taurean approach invigorating
and exciting. You like a lover who has a healthy sex drive. As one who
is comfortable with sexual expression, you'll probably feel right at
home with the Bull's creativity in bed. Taureans tend to be aggressive
lovers with an intense energy. Because you admire a passionate and dynamic
personality between the sheets, you're apt to thank your lucky stars
for your fiery Taurus lover.
In the rest of life, Taureans tend to live by a "work hard, play
hard" credo. More than most, they enjoy living in abundance, surrounded
by an excess of material goods and physical pleasures. This often includes
an enjoyment of gourmet foods and fine luxury items. They don't really
deny themselves much in this regard. You probably see this amount of
excess either as wasteful or detrimental to the spirit or both. As a
result, know that the two of you are likely to have trouble seeing eye-to-eye
on matters of moderation.
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How
to attract a Taurus
If you're looking to meet a Taurus, remember
that they love to surround themselves with abundance. They can be
found spending time in places of plenty — whether it's taking
in the beauty of nature or dining in fine restaurants. Try organizing
a singles dinner or hiking club where you encourage your friends
to invite new people to the group each time. Sooner or later, a Taurus
will be drawn to the fun — and hopefully to you.
Once you've met and set your sights on a Taurus,
you can get them to notice you by:
- Being affectionate. Subtly touch their arm
when you speak to them, and hug them when you part.
this
Gemeni likes this too
- Letting things flow. They like their partner
to be flexible and easygoing.
this
Gemeni likes this too
- Suggesting your favorite restaurant. Show
them that you have good taste.
or
just that you have an opinion!
- Noticing everyday beauty aloud. Comment on
an amazing sunset or the way the wind blows the trees.
this
Gemeni likes this too
- Treating them to a home-cooked meal —
especially if you are a good cook.
But watch out — you can sabotage your
efforts by:
- Interrupting them. A Taurus wants to make
sure their points are heard.
- Rushing them. The Bull moves at a slow but
steady pace.
- Pushing them too hard. Respect the Taurean
need to be stubborn sometimes.
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 Your
future with Sagittarius the Archer (November 23 to December
21)
Sagittarius is among your better matches, with a few caveats. The
Archer's free-spirited ways and pleasure-driven approach to life are
right up your alley. However, Sagittarian indecisiveness isn't likely
to be so appealing. You'd prefer a partner who can make up their mind.
All the same, a Sagittarian's better qualities are likely to win you
over in the end. With a little TLC, your relationship with a Sagittarius
can indeed become true love.
You can keep an eye out for potential Sagittarius partners by noticing
the people around you who speak quickly and stay on the move. Sagittarians
are known for rushing optimistically forward in both the conversation
and in life. People of this sign are often witty, sometimes flirtatious,
and also prone to telling wild stories full of exaggeration. They love
adventure, and their spirits generally run high. Your first impression
of the Archer will likely be a favorable one, because they're so easy
to talk with and interesting to listen to.
A Sagittarius' sense of adventure often leads to taking risks and
exploring unknown territory. They feel compelled to increase their freedom
and enjoyment almost constantly. The most favored way for the Archer
to do this is in trekking into the wild blue yonder. Sagittarians are
seldom fearful of what they may encounter. This bravery is due in large
part to their optimism, as well as their firm belief that they are both
lucky and smart. You're apt to find yourself in awe of this fearlessness,
and you'll probably genuinely appreciate a Sagittarian's sense of adventure.
Joining a Sagittarius in their ongoing travels would probably prove
interesting and energizing for you.
Throughout their travels far and near, Sagittarians search to understand
the big picture and the meaning of life. However, because their quest
is much larger than any one person can expect to accomplish in a lifetime,
an Archer is ultimately set up for a lifetime of wandering and learning.
This eternal quest tends to make Sagittarians intelligent people. After
all, they've been questioning all their lives, and most will continue
to do so. This intellectual curiosity can really fascinate you. A Sagittarian's
thoughtful consideration of weighty philosophical issues is just one
more way that they're likely to draw you in. Know that the more time
you spend around a Sagittarius, the more you're apt to find yourself
with questions rather than hard and fast answers about the mysteries
of life.
The Archer has a tendency toward restlessness. If things stay the
same for too long, they'll often want to make a move to shake things
up. Sometimes this tendency can invigorate a relationship, and other
times it can harm it. This all depends how trapped a Sagittarian feels.
People of this sign don't stay by your side simply because you have
a committed relationship. They need to feel that they have the freedom
to opt out of a relationship if it is no longer vital. This will almost
certainly not be an acceptable arrangement for you. And if you feel
that you can change this fact about a Sagittarian, think again.
By the same token, Sagittarians usually have mixed feelings about
following the traditional relationship route to marriage and children.
They can be ever questioning when it comes to established conventions
and may feel apprehensive about making long-term commitments. This doesn't
mean that a Sagittarius never gets married. They just come to it less
easily and naturally than some of the other signs. You'll probably understand
this kind of hesitance and respect the Archer's need to thoroughly consider
things before moving your relationship to the next level. In fact, you
may feel much the same way.
In the bedroom, a Sagittarius lover will usually keep your interest
with their sexual knowledge and creativity. Oftentimes, the Archer has
done their research when it comes to maximizing pleasure in the bedroom.
Even if they haven't, they're usually quick to learn and have a good
deal of energy. People of this sign generally listen well and will make
you feel comfortable in sharing your desires. Overall, the Sagittarian
approach is likely to be very encouraging to you. In fact, you're apt
to find real happiness and satisfaction with a Sagittarian partner in
this arena.
In many areas of life, Sagittarians' directness sometimes gets them
into trouble. People of this sign tend to speak without thinking through
the effect of their words. They can sometimes be quite blunt. The good
news is that Sagittarians rarely mean any harm. Once they've spoken
they're also the kind who are willing to hear the other side of an issue.
So although a Sagittarian's bluntness can sometimes smart, you'll probably
prefer it to not hearing what's on your partner's mind at all. Know
that generally the Archer argues fairly, listens to your needs and opinions,
and tells you how they really feel.
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 Your
future with Cancer the Crab (June 22 to July 22)
Potential Cancerian partners can usually be identified by their caring
natures. In fact, from the very first time you meet them, many Cancerians
have a way of showing interest in you that makes it feel safe to share
your deepest secrets with them. Cancers are also known for being masters
of emotion. They have a knack for helping people with problems and concerns.
They also wear their hearts on their sleeves more than most people.
This fact can make them true romantics when it comes to relationships.
However, you'll probably find the Crab's sentimental ways a bit over
the top and sappy. In many regards, Cancerians are an open book, and
this level of emotional display is likely to make you uncomfortable.
Above all, Cancerians are nurturing. As a result, many Cancers spend
a great deal of their time and energy helping those around them grow
to be the best they can be. This caring impulse can take on many forms,
from cooking to teaching and offering advice. Because Cancers can be
so compassionate and sympathetic, they'll ordinarily be there for you
in good times and bad. When the Crab thinks a loved one is in danger,
they can be a real force to reckon with. Cancerians' gentle manners
yield quickly to become like the bared teeth of a lioness protecting
her cubs. You're likely to appreciate these efforts to look after you.
When your Cancer goes a little overboard — and often they will
— you will simply grin and bear it, knowing that their heart is
in the right place.
When it comes to finding a life partner, you'd be hard-pressed to
find a more faithful mate than a Cancer. Family can be the most important
thing to this sign, making them deeply committed to the growth and stability
of family relationships. In general, the excitement of the new and unknown
holds little interest for Cancerians when they compare it to the sense
of peace and comfort they draw from their own family life. So when it
comes to commitment, you and the Crab appear to speak the same language.
You can feel secure knowing that your Cancer is dedicated to you and
the love you share.
If a Cancerian gets into an emotional tizzy, it can be difficult for
them to snap out of it. The Crab has a tendency to brood and become
self-absorbed when they're processing deep emotions. It can be tough
for you to watch your partner go through these tough times. However,
you're strong enough to see them through these down cycles without letting
yourself get too drawn into their emotions. Be aware that one emotion
Cancerians tend to gravitate toward is jealousy. So even if a Cancer
is able to steer clear of full-blown jealous fits, they're still likely
to be possessive when they feel their relationship is being threatened.
A small amount of possessiveness isn't likely to break your stride.
You're the kind of person who understands that when someone is as fully
invested in a relationship as a Cancer tends to be, a little possessiveness
is completely natural.
In the bedroom, a Cancerian lover will initially be somewhat difficult
to know. Just because they display their emotions openly doesn't mean
that they can't be a bit sexually timid at times. However, once a Cancer
gets comfortable, their romantic, passionate nature can shine. It seems
that for many Cancerians, ideas about love come directly from fairy
tales. This is one more reason that they often enjoy a long and romantic
courtship. So if you can be patient with the Crab in the early stages
of your relationship, you may find that the payoff is well worth your
while. However, you may also find that their early coyness is something
you can't tolerate. If this is the case, it's likely that you won't
wait for them to catch up with you physically.
Because Cancerians tend to value their families first and foremost,
they're often focused on creating a safe, comfortable abode to support
and nourish their loved ones. More than many signs, Cancers are natural
homebodies. As a result, many love to welcome people into their homes
for informal gatherings or dinners. A Cancer's door is always open to
friends and family, especially in times of need. Cancerians can also
be enamored with tradition for its historical and community aspects.
This sign seems happiest when married with children — the more
children the better. Cancerian ideals may be too traditional for your
tastes, especially if you have anything besides home and family as your
top priority. Over time, you might become bored or boxed in by the caring
Crab.
For a Cancer, part of caring for and nurturing their family includes
managing finances. Cancerians are typically good with money, especially
savings. They want to make sure that their loved ones are financially
secure in times of emergency and are able to afford the education and
opportunities that they may desire. This approach seems in line with
your hopes for your financial future. As a result, you're apt to be
in agreement with your Cancerian partner when it comes to money matters.
Take Action
 Your
future with Libra the Scales (September 24 to October 23)
For the most part, you're well matched with a Libra. However, there
are some sticky points. In favor of relationship success is the fact
that you appear to be drawn to the Scales' fairness and focus on your
relationship. A challenge comes in the form of Libra's sometimes-aggravating
levels of lethargy. Trying to get them moving might really put your
relationship to the test. However, in the end, a Libra's finer points
have a good chance of outshining their faults. With a little extra effort,
you can create a lasting love with a Libra.
You can usually recognize potential Libra partners in conversation.
They're the people who'll listen closely to what you have to say and
give you sound advice when you ask for it. The way a Libra talks with
you will likely make you feel heard, understood, and comfortable. They
always seem to know the right thing to say. In part, you're apt to enjoy
a Libran's company due to their social graces. Libras tend to relate
well with others and can be great communicators. These factors are likely
to give them high marks in your book.
Libras will almost always take the time and put forth the energy to
create and maintain an equitable relationship. A Libra appreciates a
cooperative partner and demands that their mate be a clear communicator
who is suitably invested in the relationship. A Libran's main objective
is to balance their relationship and keep it peaceful. Part of their
motivation for doing so is that they very much dislike conflict. Of
the 12 signs, Libras are masters of compromise and are known for their
fairness. They rarely try to manipulate a situation to their advantage.
A typical Libran relationship style will feel comfortable to you, creating
a solid foundation for your life together. Your partnership with a Libra
will be built on mutual effort and compromise.
Partnerships are most Librans' primary goal. People of this sign like
to do pretty much everything with a friend or partner. To Libras, two
is almost always better than one, and they don't like to go it on their
own. Because of this fact, Libras aren't terribly independent. They
can simply get too lonely when they don't have company. Keeping your
independence in a relationship is probably one of your lower priorities
— at least in comparison to its partnership aspects. For this
reason, you're likely to value your Libra mate for the quality of their
company, despite their reticence to do things alone.
When Libras become bored, they risk slipping into a state of apathy
or downright laziness. It's easy for a Libra to cling to a worn out
routine until they feel an overwhelming lack of stimulation. The good
news is that it's fairly easy to snap a Libra out of their haze by tempting
them with new and pleasurable experiences that stretch them out of their
comfort zone. You'll likely enjoy being around an energized Libra, but
you'll tire of them quickly if they become stagnant. Remember that the
more entertaining you can be, the more engaged your Libra partner will
remain.
In the bedroom, a Libra lover will be inclined to focus on making
the surroundings pleasing and romantic, using their creativity and good
taste as a guide. A Libran's sexual appetite is significant, and they're
generally alluring to those whom they set out to attract. Because of
their sensual nature, you'll likely find most Libras to be fascinating
and appealing as lovers. You're also apt to appreciate the stage they
set for your sexual interludes.
Throughout their lives, Libras are drawn to beauty in all forms. This
sign usually has a strong interest in the arts. So whether they actively
create or simply appreciate art, Libras are definitely involved with
the creative world in some way. Libras are active thinkers, communicators,
and creators, especially in social or communal areas. A Libran's intellectual
and creative capacities will likely both attract you to them and keep
you interested, whether or not you end up in a romantic relationship.
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 Your
future with Pisces the Fishes (February 20 to March 20)
Generally speaking, Pisces is not a good match for you. The Fishes'
gentle, easygoing ways are likely to strike you as passive and weak.
You're also apt to be turned off by their sometimes timid nature and
tendency to be bossed around. So unless you can find some other attractive
quality about a peaceful Pisces, true love seems unlikely.
You can pick out potential Pisces partners by their genteel kindness
when you're introduced and by the way they take a true interest in helping
others. At parties, they'll probably be the ones helping the hosts pass
out hors d'oeuvres, greet guests, or do after-party cleanup. Pisces
like to be of service. Both compassionate and giving, you may also have
luck finding them at charitable events or volunteering in their communities.
The Fishes are typically easy to approach and emotionally open. They
can also be quite sensitive. This quiet, loving nature will probably
seem comforting and nurturing to you. As one who values openness and
tact, Pisces will likely be a good match for you on this front.
Pisces is potentially the most easygoing sign in the zodiac. The Fishes
usually just swim along, go with the flow, and avoid making waves. This
can make them exceedingly easy to get along with — just as long
as you don't mind them not having strong opinions. Unfortunately, because
of this trait, you'll probably feel that there's something lacking in
your relationship with a Pisces. At times when they show reticence to
make firm decisions or take charge of a situation, you may find yourself
wishing that they had a stronger personality.
Most Pisces are compassionate, empathic people who tend to absorb
the emotions of those around them. Because of this fact, the Fishes
will often try to avoid conflict to keep themselves from taking in others'
bad vibes. Generally, harmony equals happiness for people of this sign.
Another common Piscean trait is that they often put others' needs before
their own. This is just another aspect of the Fishes helpful nature.
However, at times working on others' behalf means that a Pisces gives
up their own sense of inner peace for a while. When this happens, the
Fishes may need to retreat into the waters for a period of renewal.
Alone time can be very important for a Pisces's well-being. You'll likely
understand and appreciate a Piscean's sensitivity, supporting them in
their search for harmony and calm. This positive attitude toward a Pisces'
emotional health will be duly noted. Your reward will be the thanks
of an extremely loving and giving partner.
Many Pisces are well tuned in to the world's suffering, and it's far
too easy for the Fishes to take these grand problems on themselves.
Pisceans who become focused on the world's ills can develop unhealthy
outlooks and a lack of hope for the future. At times when a Pisces slips
into a downward cycle, they tend to become lethargic and gloomy. Know
that the best way to stave off such melancholy and pessimism is to give
your Pisces the time and space to regenerate their own personal sense
of peace and abundance. All the same, these dark moods will likely be
troubling for you. You might even worry that your Fishes could drift
off into an irreversible negative state. Also, because they're probably
not getting a lot accomplished in these blue periods, it may put stress
on you and the relationship overall.
In the bedroom, a Pisces lover may be shy and withdrawn at first,
expecting their lover to make the first move. More than any other sign,
Pisceans are usually romantic, sensual people who value the emotional
connection that can be attained through sexuality. Sex for its own sake
isn't often high on a Pisces list of priorities. As in the rest of life,
a Pisces seeks something deeper. If your Pisces takes a passive approach
to sex, you're likely to find it frustrating and unsatisfying. You may
value the emotional connection that a Pisces seeks, but your sex drive
may simply be stronger than that of your Pisces mate.
Because Pisces often seek harmony and peace above all else, they'll
tend to back down or change course when their ideas or decisions are
challenged. Preferring to swim in schools with others rather than be
singled out, the Fishes are also often exceedingly modest. Even when
a Pisces is very talented at something, they are not the kind to show
off. You won't usually find a Pisces competing to steal the spotlight
from someone else. You'll probably find this desire to remain in the
shadows aggravating and disappointing. However, no amount of your wishing
your Pisces were more independent or showy will make it so.
Finally, Pisces are known to be the least argumentative sign in the
zodiac. So if you're looking for a rousting good fight, it's time to
look elsewhere. You seem to appreciate people who are willing to defend
more than just the peace. You likely want someone who is willing to
battle a bit in defense of their opinions. If you need conflict in your
relationship to keep things fresh, you're apt to be quite disappointed
by the Fishes.
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How
to get along with a Pisces
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