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Behavior:
There are countless reasons why people may act or feel a certain age
at any given point in their lives. Feeling a certain age is not a static
thing, nor is it something that always follows a pre-determined pattern.
Some people act older when they are children then have a second childhood
in their retirement years. Others act like children until they become
parents and then seem to click into a different mode. It can be helpful
and insightful to learn which stage you're at right now, and why.
Nobody fits neatly into a given category. There are several components
in your emotional age: behavior, emotion, and responsibility. In the
area of behavior, you seem to fall very clearly into the "mature"
category. There is no doubt that others can rely on you and that your
behavior is probably consistent and dependable. This is great, but it
probably also means that you don't allow yourself to have too much fun
or act "outside the box." Most of your actions might be dictated
by how they are going to affect other people. Basically, you might want
to lighten up a little. Try to focus more on your own feelings. And,
most of all -- have a little fun!
Emotions:
In the realm of emotions, you seem to fall into the "adolescent"
category. This means that you sometimes express your emotions without
thinking about the effect they have on other people. It can also mean
that you are extremely self-conscious and worried about what other people
think of you. Adolescents are notorious for being influenced by peer
pressure and societal standards. Adolescents may also often be moody
and withdrawn and have a hard time making emotional commitments, but
they can also display great creativity. They feel strongly about many
different things in their lives. Your passion for life probably comes
through in your emotional reactions.
Responsibility:
When it comes to the level of responsibility you assume, for yourself
or others, you fall into the "adult" category. This means
that you are probably someone who can be relied on to come through in
any situation. People around you likely consider you dependable and
strong. Don't let your dominant care-taking side force you to neglect
your own needs. Keep a healthy balance and continue to take care of
yourself too.
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