What You Say
The truth and nothing but the truth. You say what you mean. No mixed signals. You don't succumb to the typical game-playing that so often accompanies dating. In fact, you won't even humor the guy if you're not interested. And, if you're looking for reassurance, you'll ask for it. Altering your words to prevent an awkward situation doesn't make much sense to you. Say what you mean, right? Well, we commend you for your honesty and good intentions. Many people in the dating scene avoid speaking their mind and end up sending very ambiguous messages. That doesn't fly with you. Your words simply and clearly convey your thoughts. No ulterior motives. You know he can't read your mind, and you probably have no interest in waiting for him to pick up on your subtle cues. By doing this, you demand — and most definitely receive — a ton of respect from the guys you date. You're one up on the rest of the dating world. Congratulations, you've cracked the dating code! Do unto others..... I want honesty... I must be honest.  Can you really handle honesty?

What You Believe
Hmmm...seems like you're not quite sure whether to trust him or not. You probably want to take what he says at face value, but there's some nagging part of you that just won't let you completely believe him. You definitely don't analyze his every word. Pat yourself on the back for that one. But you do keep your defenses up just in case. Unfortunately, cynicism has become a beneficial attribute for people submerged in the dating scene. Maybe in the beginning it's smart to look out for number one and refrain from trusting too easily. But you need to know that when a guy has proven his good intentions, it's time to put your questioning mind to rest. This is key to having a good relationship. Skepticism may protect you from getting hurt, but when you see a good thing on the horizon, make sure you show some trust. It's a smart woman who knows how to crack the datespeak code.

I'm sorry, this is my experience.  Do you know and understand the theory of Pavlov's Dogs?  If not..... you should.  Then you would understand.  I do not think all men are pigs asses.... just so happens though that every man in my life has been.  ive me a reason to believe something else.  JB really had me convinced.... then he becakse "instant Dick, just add adversity."  Sorry - I don't write the plays, I'm just one of the lead roles. HEY - at least I deliver the same as I expect.....